I Sold Out
- By: rebekah
- On: 08/31/2009 08:16:49
- In: Rumor Has It ...
- Comments: 50
I did, I sold out.
But before we discuss that, I've got good news and bad news. Which do you want first?
Do you tend to pick the good or bad news first when someone asks you that? I usually ask for the good first...so, here goes.
The good news: internet was finally (finally!!) hooked up in our new house. It took a whole week to get it done, but, friends, it is FINALLY here. There are still some problems, but at least I can access the Internet.
Which means I'm not sitting in Starbucks at the moment, but am in my family room instead.
Incidentally, I meant to tell you that one day last week I had been working out in the yard and was not presentable in the least. Not by sight nor smell. I needed to get access to the Internet to take care of a couple of pressing things, but hated to walk into Starbucks being so entirely and completely not presentable.
So, I decided to try to catch the WiFi wave out in my car in the parking lot in front of Starbucks. It worked! Who knew?
I've got to thank you for all the GREAT suggestions for catching some zzzz's. I had a feeling y'all would have some ideas for dealing with this. I'm still working on it and will probably try each and every suggestion before I'm finished.
Now, on to the bad news.
But really, it's not that bad. No, not bad at all. I mean, there is some real bad news out there...and this? Just another glitch, that's all. It could be worse. It could ALWAYS be worse. You know what? Now that I think about it, this isn't bad news at all. It's actually good news. So here's the other good news:
I've got some kind of bug or flu or something. My tonsils feel like golf balls, it hurts to talk, I can't breathe and have nausea. That's probably too much information for you. (My daughter's first grade teacher used to say "TMI." Ever since first grade, that's how we refer to such facts: TMI.)
Oh well. Know that I've taken my Nyquil and plan to lay around all day. See now? That's the good news. Nyquil. Someone suggested Nyquil for my insomnia and now I can try it...

What will I do today, you might ask? Just laying around "aching, sniffling, sneezing, stuffy-head, fever so I can't rest." (Did I get it right? The symptoms in the Nyquil commercial?)
Here's where the "I sold out" comes in to play.
I'll not be reading as I try to get feeling better. Or sleeping. Or goofing around on the computer.
Look who my Hubby invited over to our house on Saturday:

The satelitte tv man.
This means we have television.
We haven't had television for over two years.
And I haven't missed it AT ALL.
Well, except for that day when I heard that David Cassidy was on Oprah. But other than that? Haven't missed a thing about television.
But hubby has.
He's missed sports and news. And he likes the weather.
So, I gave in. "Okay, Sweetie, whatever...."
I guess I didn't really "sell out." I just gave in. Hubby's very cute. And his cutemess makes him very persuasive in these and all matters.
But, let me tell you this. I intend to be heavy handed with the "OFF" button. With an 8-year old daughter I protect like Mama Bear, I have a feeling I'll be turning television OFF a lot.
But today? Well, today I'll be catching up with the Food Network and TVLand...


Me and Nyquil and daytime tv...
and Strudel-Noodle, sleeping like a baby....

oops, was sleeping like a baby, I just woke her up and her eyes popped open...no other movement, by the way, just the eyelids opening up....
"Oh, Strudel...lullaby and goodnight, go back to sleep...."
What about you? What are your thoughts about television in your home? Anybody lived without it for a period of time? Or for good? What were your reasons? Or, could you never live without it? Are there some shows you simply must see each week? (Used to be Seinfeld for me...Will probably be again on reruns.) What are the best shows these days? Or the best channels?
And let me just add: Y'all are the BEST commenters in all of blogland!
Until next time, Friends, savor the flavor of life!
Lots of love, The City Farmgirl, Rebekah
See ya back here next Tuesday!

Comments
And we never turn the thing on.
We use it for movies, mostly, which we rent from Netflix.
Over the last few years, we've watched two shows - Lost and .... and ... what was that show? Oh - Heroes! But we always watched them on the internet because it was easier than recording them on our VCR. We won't watch a program on straight TV, cause we can't stand the commercials.
A couple of years ago, my daughter moved back in with her Dad so she could save for a down payment on a house. She had a big-screen TV that she was afraid to put in storage, so we took it. It's upstairs in our bedroom. I think my husband turned it on once to watch a basketball game. I will NEVER agree to watch a TV in our bedroom.
I guess there's really no point to my rambling. Except to say - yeah, be really tough with that "off" button.
OK, but I will admit, Food Network, the History Channel, Hallmark (at Christmas).
OK, so maybe I need my TV just a little bit.
And when my kids were little our TV broke and we were without for one entire summer and nobody noticed - too many games to play outside, too many places to explore...just wayyyy too busy to watch it!
Get better Miss Germy!
And be careful not to get sucked into Project Runway ! ha!
Although Design Star is pretty fun!
See? I watch it hardly at all.
Get well soon, and enjoy curling up, staying dozy and comfy until you feel better.
I just discovered your blog :-)
Since everything went digital, we can only pick up one channel. So we don't bother with it. BUT we do have Netflix and love their Instant Play. Homework, dinner and chores must be done by everyone before it gets turned on though and bedtime is 8-8:30 pm so it limits the time that it can be watched, plus, if we can't finish a movie in that time frame then it's a no-go. When we lived out in the country the TV wasn't as much of a bother, too much to do and see. Can't wait till we move back out. (Ack, who'd have ever thought I'd be raising "city" kids?!)
CC
I haven't owned a tee vee since about October 2001, and I'm not missing a worthwhile thing. If you recall, in the wake of 911, we were all glued to our tee vees, and I was no exception. Mine just stopped working one day that October... blank screen, and I was very busy with work at the time and didn't have time to go shopping for a new one. In the days following, I began to notice my mood brighten, and my general outlook on everything took a significant positive turn. At first I was puzzled, as there had been no event in my life to account for my perky Spirit, and then I realized... oh yes there had been an event: I was no longer being "told" on a daily basis what to think and how to feel about certain things. Upon realizing this, I took the old Panasonic and heaved it into a dumpster; bought a big screen monitor, computer and VHS/Disc movie player, and life returned to normal.
I am fortunate, because I grew up in the foothills of the Smokey Mountains during a time when there was little or no tee vee... I was about 5 years old when Knoxville got it's first station WATE, and I read, a LOT, and listened to those old radio dramas, which require the use of imagination to visualize what was being heard.
Television... techno-geeks are fond of plays on words and letters... translation: "Tell them how to see it"...
To me it's just tee vee.
Thank You for reading.
Gary
in Tampa
We don't have cable TV, but we do have Cable Internet, so we use hulu.com. I miss the Discover channel, the Travel channel, and the History channel, but that is probably because we homeschool our four children... If we want a movie, we go to the library and check it out.
Get well soon,
Now we live in a little house with one TV that gets very bad reception (I refuse to pay for cable) Our TV is so old and hubby has wanted a flat screen for a very long time. Early this year I suggested he buy that flat screen, and guess what?? He still hasn't bought it!
It's truly a waste of time and money. We can watch what we need to on our computer.
Hope you fell better soon!
Miki
Here's a highly effective old-time treatment for the dreadful flu-like symptoms you describe. Here in the Northwest where it rains mucho fall, winter, spring (but is beautiful & things grow like mad) I've struggled with nose/throat/lung/ear stuffiness stuff for 46 years -- & usually lose my voice for a while in the process. Last year a naturopath told me about THE WET SOCK TREATMENT which REALLY HELPS. Now I've learned from an Austrian friend that it's widely used in Europe & elsewhere where it's been known for centuries! Anyhow here it is. Before going to bed (day or night) thoroughly wet & wring out a pair of cotton socks & put them on! (I use hot water.) Then immediately pull on over them a pair of heavy wool socks & get into bed well-covered. Your feet feel cold for maybe 30 seconds. Then warmth works in. All night as you sleep, the wool keeps in the moist warmth & your feet feel lovely. When you wake up the socks are all dry & your warm feet & legs have kept your blood circulating all night long. And this all makes sense. Think about it. The reason sheep do fine out in freezing wet weather is that wool, even wet wool, holds in the heat, as all hikers know.
Why amazing simple healing facts like this are not better known has always mystified me.... And also, as you probably know, STEAM yourself over & over. Run the shower, close the door, sit in the bathroom & read.... And also, use a neti pot or saltwater nose squirter thing once or more a day.... And also, take LOTS of Vitamin D, the sunshine vitamin....
So here's hoping you resurrect soon. And of course it seems we now & then need to feel miserable so we can, when restored, realize yet again what a miraculous thing it is to be alive....Meanwhile, facing September, I thank you for reminding me to be mindful of these seasons.
Nancy Rekow, 9/1/2009
So stay strong! I too miss the Food Network and the History channel and truth be known, if I could pay for just the channels I wanted to see, I totally would.
Netflix is fantastic and the Internet lets me see pretty much any sitcom episode I like.
No need to support the 45 home shopping channels just to get local stations and HGTV, right? :)
I hope you get to feeling better.
Blair
Ginger Tea works really good when you are sickly. Hope you feel better.
donna
I have no idea why that would have happened? Try it again, if you don't mind. My understanding is that we don't even need a valid email address for comments to be posted here, so gosh, I can't imagine what happened?
I do know about the "website" question. If you want a link from your name to your website, type in your website address and it will pop up. Then everybody can visit your website too!
Okay, let me know if you have any further problems with posting. I'll ask the technical wizards to look into it!
Take care! Rebekah
Newbie here, just popping in to say we have cable and I use it to watch all the old movies. I love seeing the great actors, act without all the vulgarities. It is so delightful!
Just went thru a week of Audrey Hepburn (what a beauty) and some Sinatra movies. Since changing our eating habits, the food channels don't really work for me anymore. I do like PBS now and then, wish we could get some Westerns. Am I showing my age?
Loved your picture of Strudel-Noodle. Wish there was a way for me to attach my "pattycake" in the very same pose as Strudel. Pattycake is a silver/blonde yorkie that is the sweetest pup anyone could ever want...love her so much! Anyway, I know that look of eyes moving and nothing else...hahaha!
Be well dear Rebekah...take care of yourself.
Blessings,
Nancy
Nasty things, tonsils.. they make it so much worse.
Love the subject of tvs. We don't have sat. or cable but love the PBS Create Channel.
Also a big LOST fan . Course I am addicted to Brit Coms on PBS !
I do show my youngest dd old shows like Gilligan's Island & Hazel :-) on Hulu.. or another Internet site.
Currently I spend more time on my MP3 listening to everything from "Father Knows Best" 1950's radio too Knitting podcasts. Great for my daily walks..
I have to say I am amazed at how many comments are on here from those that don't watch a lot of tv.. Nice to hear..
lis
Okay~ tv...Around the time our daughter was born, we got sick of the cable bill (they kept raising the rates) and turned off the service. So just 'snow' on the screen since then, tho we do use a DVD player and Video player for watching movies (from friends or Library). We played lots of games at our house and had numerous kid sleepovers. Somehow, our place was popular even without tv. Lots of hiking, reading aloud and visits to the Library for more stacks of books (each of out 4 kids could check out 50 books at a time!). We have not regretted this for one moment. Honest. People are amazed at the fun and memories we have as a family. We still play games together and the kids have never begged for the tv. We turned it off when our daughter was born and that was 21 years ago. Try it...unite the family :)
Hope you are feeling better really soon!
I just had to add my two cents to tv land.
When my kids were little (I had 5 in 6 years, the last two were twins) I decided that my kids were far to interested in tv and it was always a battle to keep it off so I made a deal with them if they sold the play station and the main TV, we would buy a trampoline. They agreed and we sold the items and bought a trampoline and get this a fantastic trampoline tent that is made for the trampoline.
They had so much fun on that trampoline and camping out in the tent that went with it! We would drag out the little tv that had a vcr in the bottom of it and put it in the tent, get out sleeping bags and pop popcorn and then snuggle up and watch a movie in the back yard. The trampoline has lasted about 12 years and is still in commission including a few patches that the canvas shop put on it.
My kids played together so much because they were the entertainment. They are all young adults now and still enjoy each other's company.
My oldest daughter is writing and illustrating children's stories and she always says I think our imaginations went wild when we were kids because we didn't have tv to entertain us. I now am the proud grandma of my first grand baby (a sweet little girl) and as soon as she is big enough she and I will jump on that trampoline and watch movies in that tent and I am certain that when she is at grandma's house we will find all kinds of stuff to do other than watch tv.
By the way I love reading your blogs! Jan
A couple of years ago when the economy took a dive I talked my husband into downgrading our cable to just basic. I was so excited to be back to just 13 channels! Just like when I was a kid! I though "there you go, kids will find other things to do because there won't be an endless stream of channels." I thought about this more for my daughter who is 17. But, of course she found adequate junk TV to watch. But, it's less frequent and my voice is less hoarse form yelling at them to "TURN OFF THAT TV AND FIND SOMETHING CONSTRUCTIVE TO DO! LIKE A BOOK!" There are so many other activities to do (quilting, reading, playing an instrument, learning a new hobby, gardening, the list is endless).
My strongest advice is NEVER LET VIDEO GAMES INTO YOUR HOUSE! I'm not thrilled about Wii. We will eventually leave the TV behind. We are moving east from the Seattle area. I asked my husband if he thought he would be ready to leave the TV here too and he actually said "YES"!! Very progressive of my sci-fi junky husband! I am truly a farmgirl trapped in a city dwelling, always have been. I dream of getting up at the crack of dawn to feed chickens and goats (maybe even a horse :-), planting large gardens, having a stall in a farmers market selling my colorful treasures, the quiet of the countryside, living off the I-5 corridor (never been more than 5 miles off the corridor my entire life from San Diego to Seattle).
Anyway, good luck with the telly! And the cold! Rest! Hot lemon and honey is always soothing too! Take care Rebekah!
Take care,
Angela
Carol
BUT … my husband has been putting in some long hours at work lately and the TV is OFF!!! The windows are open, I can hear the birds sing, see the horses shuffle down the lane to their favorite pasture, and hear hens clucking over one of their best eggs ever. Its life as it should be.
I cannot understand why we allow all the things of a world gone wrong to take up valuable cell space in our brain. Call me a Pollyanna, but I choose to fill my brain cells with a morning kiss, a sunrise over the mountains, and crisp morning air while sipping a steaming cup of coffee. And that’s just the beginning of my day. I can’t wait to get started.
My husband is the same as Shari's. TV on every minute. I like the old shows like TV land or food network for background noise sometimes when I do needle work at night, no birds singing then. Otherwise, just use it to get the news or weather. Much prefer to be outside or listening to the oldies on Surius Radio which comes with the TV cable service. Good use for the TV, listening to oldies on it. Usually something nice I can sing to. (Can't carry a tune so only sing when no one is around) LOL! Makes me feel good.
Now, about the tv. My family and I were without television for about 15 years. We didn't miss it, we didn't have it.That was when we lived on the farm and had no business even watching tv.We were busy from sun up till sun down.
Then we moved to our little town and got tv.We got satellite and had more channels than I even knew existed! My husband even went out and bought a big plasma tv with surround sound. Guess what? That was like four years ago and now all we watch is Mountaineer football and basketball.(GO 'EERS!)Go figure, I guess it's a nice thing to have but I wouldn't want to live there???lol
Feel better Rebekah, get some much needed rest and relax.
I remember that when I was 3 years old on a farm in Indiana my parents purchased the first TV in the whole area. I remember watching wrestling with neighbors and that is all.
I could live without it but my family would not agree.
Anyway - I have countless pictures of my Maggie dog like that. I chuckled thinking about all of the sweet doggie naps I've interrupted with the flash of a camera.
I think TV still has its place in the world and don't begrudge it at all. I really don't watch it much, my husband watches it more often and we both jokingly call it a 'wasteland'. But it has a place in our "busyness", actually kind of a quiet place - a place where we are physically quiet and not pressed to do something. It really has a big part in some older folks' world providing a voice in a quiet house.
Lastly, we raised our daughter on a ranch in a very rural situation in the west. We had a TV with rabbit ears and could get a PBS station and another local type station as our house was on a big hill. The neighbors down the way had six kids. They did not believe a TV should be part of a household. Occasionally I would invite the lot of them up to play (as we had just one little bambino). She would be so excited but as soon as those kids would come they would beg to watch TV. Sometimes we would go along and turn on some children's program and they would all sit fixated on the screen. It didn't appear that they were learning a lot from the no TV rule to me. My daughter learned you could take it or leave it and there were times when it was a big bonding element for us - every Sunday evening we watched Murder She Wrote - solving murders left and right. It was "our" fun time amid a ranchlife full of the out of doors, work and play. My daughter is grown up now - she is a huge reader, makes things, sells on Etsy, etc. but she does have a TV. Get Well Soon!
I spend the day by myself and the tv never comes on, but when the other half is home that is the first thing he does when he walks in the door. I prefer a movie in the evening, I think it is so true, "gosh knows how many channels these days and not much on" I do like the feeling though that if I wanted to watch tv it is here.
I love you blog, thank you so much for continuing even though you are not feeling well, you are a sweetie :)
We are watching less tv, and I agree with some others, that my mood is better, too. I'm more choosy in what I watch, spend time doing my crafts, or playing with grandchildren...was just thinking...when I was young ( like yourself) the only times I was nauseous was when I was pregnant....? I use honey & fresh lemons, with tea for my sore throat. Have you tried that? It is great! hope you feel better real soon...
I love your writing.
Don't stop!
Barbara
EASTENDERS is a British soap opera that i used to be fanatic about until one day i just stopped watching it. i really dont know why. i paid for it thru pay per view and it was worth every cent. The accents were difficult to understand at first, but you get used to those different little words and syllables like "bum" instead of my buttocks or "rubbish" instead of trash. "boot sale" is one of my favorites. I just want to go to England so i can go to a boot sale! And, no, they don't sell boots!!! The other thing i liked about Eastenders is that all of the people are just ordinary people not not glitzed up Hollywood types. i just loved it................think ill go back for more. So, i hope you read my first comment. I'm sure i'll have many more to come.
Louise Fredieu
As for television, nearly two years ago, my new husband and I decided we did not want or need television. It is wonderful! We get news and other important information from the internet; we read tons; and best of all, we talk. It is wonderful not to have the excuse of the noise that might keep us from the effort of remaining 'in tune.' I love the quiet and I don't miss the rhetoric, the repeats, the continual bids to get watchers to buy, buy, buy. I don't ever see television in our future. We do belong to Net Flix, and so are able to choose great movies to watch together, but beyond that, and even movies are 'special' and spaced out fairly far apart, I am happier than ever NOT to have television invading our home! Thanks for asking! Lisa
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