Always Remember: Life is A....

....what? What do you say life is?

For me? "Party."

That's what I always say. "Life is a party, so dance." I've been saying that for years now.

Yet I'm actually much better at saying it than I am at living it. I need to work on that this year.

Emerson has a quote I like, “Write it on your heart that every day is the best day of the year.”

So that's today. Today is the best day of the year. And it's a party. Let me take a moment to write that on my heart. And try to live it!

There is a place in my life, a special spot on this earth that makes living those words, both Emerson's and mine, easier.

Going there, to my special place, has an immediate impact on my heart, mind, soul. When I am there, life is indeed a party and a dance.

When I'm there, I am in a bubble.

You've heard me talk about it before. It is my mountain farm. It is my place of respite, renewal, recreation (re-creation). And sure, I’ve taken you there before, but never in the snow. You gotta see it in the snow!

We recently made a trip when snow was predicted. I learned that snow turns my bubble into a snow globe.  

So step inside the snow globe with me. It is dreamy here. I'll give it a good shake first. Oh and turn on the music box. Okay, ready for wonderland? My wonderland?

Let's start with my snow.

It begins to fall. Softly. On my roof top. On my meadow. In my woods. On my road. In my creek.

I run out to see if it is real. Barefoot, no coat, no hat. Crazy city girl from the south. I run back inside and announce, "It's snowing!"

This, my snow, is magical fluff that brings joy and awe. The world becomes shades of black and white as it falls.

(I notice now that most of these photos look like I used black and white film. It's just the way it is in the snow globe today.)

Here is my farmhouse.

My farmhouse is set in a cove, protected and serene.

The farmhouse itself is full of love and enchantment and peace. Built with care in 1939, it had all those things before I called it mine. I continue to fill it with those things (love, enchantment, peace). And it shares those things (love, enchantment, and peace) with me and fills me to the brim.

(While I am there, I load my pockets, my luggage, my make-up case, my everything with those things: love, enchantment, peace. I jam them in the car before we leave. And then I use them sparingly when I return home to traffic and concrete and noise.)

Here are my mountains.

(That is the gutter from the corner of my farmhouse that you see in the middle left. Behind the tall bush?)

I love my mountains.

These are part of what are (probably) the oldest mountains on earth. The Appalachians. Yes, God took his sweet time in forming these. 

And here are some of my frosty trees on one of my mountains. 

Frosty on top. And frosty on bottom.

There were also frosty cows on a different mountainside. Do you see them? Black frosty cows. They look like specks.

The cows I can't and don't claim. They belong to a neighbor.

But I wish they were mine.

Maybe.

Or maybe not.

Here is a mountain goat.

Also not mine. He is a neighbor's as well. But I would take him.

Maybe. 

We converse with him when we see him there. We call him Frank. After Sinatra.

"Meh-meh-meh," we tell him.

"Mehhhhhhhhh," Frank says.

We sometimes break into a medley of Sinatra songs after we have his attention. "Start spreading the news...."

I really must find out his real name. It would spare him a concert.

Here is my forest. I love my forest.  

I like that it is contantly changing. The ground is ancient. The trees are not. They were planted over what was pasture land.

Here is my waterfall.

Cold, crisp, clean mountain water rushes down it. It is cold all year long. It makes the most pleasant sound I've ever heard.

I ran out with my camera when I heard a motor. It was a snow-plow. It is making it's second run clearing my road. I have never even seen one of these before. The driver waves to me as he passes by. I enthusiastically wave back. I love it here inside the bubble/snow globe.

Here is my dog, Strudel, taking a walk after the snow-plow passes.

I hold tightly to her 20’ long leash. I have a feeling country dogs do not know what a leash is. City dogs do not know what freedom is.
Strudel is somewhere between city and country.
She doesn't know what to think about the sweatshirt I put on her. It is my daughter's. Do country dogs wear clothes?

Oh yes! There are my blue skies. Do you see them in that picture? Do you mind if I call the sky mine? My sky goes from black and white to blue to black and white again.  

Here is my hay field. My child in a pink coat frolics in it.

She looks so small in such a grand setting. See her out there?

I call both the field and the child mine. I like them together. They enjoy each other. They entertain each other.

And here is something else I like to see together.

My cowboy with my daughter.

 

Yes, no surprise there. The cowboy is mine too.

Except he is not a cowboy. He is a businessman in a cowboy hat and a rancher coat. He has cowboy boots too. Cowboy boots are not good in the snow. But you already knew that, didn't you?

My cowboy always dreamed he’d live in the wild, wild west and ride a fast horse through the plains. Instead, he lives in the big, big city and rides a fast plane over the plains. Well, not really the plains.

My summer flowers. Just a memory now. I wonder how many flowers are within that seed head. And how much color.

I'll know the answer in July.

My daughter comes and reads over my shoulder. "You shouldn't call all those things yours," she says.

"But you can call me yours," she adds.
I know, I tell her. That's really the whole point. Get it? I ask her. None of these are mine. Not the house, not the people, not the meadow. The forest and the mountains and the waterfall were here long before I was. So was the house. They will be here long after I’m not.
I am simply a steward.
But while I'm here, I'll care for these and call them mine. Once you call something yours, you take better care of it, don't you think?
"No," she says, "I don't think you should call them yours. Except for me and Daddy."
She thinks about it and adds, "And the house. And Strudel. But not the rest."
Go do something else I tell her...I'm trying to be creative here and you're not helping the process.
She does. My child.
Back to my special place, my "life is a party" place. My mom always says---Being at that farm is better than any European vacation. (I wouldn't know, homebody that I am. But she knows!)
But I do know that this place, my place, is the most special place in the world to me. And I'll take good care of it. Promise.
Yes, my place is where life is obviously a party. Where every step is a beautiful dance. Where every day is indeed the best day of the whole year.
Thanks for coming with me! 
Until next time, Friends, savor the flavor of life!
Lots of love, The City Farmgirl, Rebekah

 

Comments

 
By: Sherry Loomis
On: 01/18/2010 14:01:00
Oh, I love your place, as I love mine. I love to take pictures of my place and show them on my blog, too. Thank you for sharing your place with us! --Sherry
 
By: Linda Tague
On: 01/18/2010 15:01:58
Thanks !!! I loved every word of this and every picture !!!
They cut straight to the heart & soul ~~ Mine ~~ !!
Thank you, thank you ~~~ Linda
 
By: Jenny Matlock
On: 01/18/2010 15:03:29
Thank you. This was lovely. And poignant. And why don't you move there full-time. It is what makes your heart beat I think.
 
By: Mary Jo Baird
On: 01/19/2010 09:58:35
You feel exactly the same way about YOUR place as I feel about MINE!!! There truly is no place like home! We, too lived somewhere else when we bought the farm. Kept going back and forth until the farm won! There was no farmhouse on our place, but we built a log home from trees on the property that we cut and drug in and peeled and notched. HOME!! Would not even consider living anywhere else!
 
By: carol branum
On: 01/19/2010 10:04:39
Hi Rebecca,Just absolutely bueatiful,your a lucky girl.I guess I need to count my blessings too.I need to purchase a new camera,I will soon,and post on my blog.I haven,t had time to write lately,the snow has kinda worn me out.Now,its the mud.And keeping my daddy in the house has been impossible.He is determined to be all man.I am totally tired and wornout to a frazzle with worry.I guess if something bad should happen to him he will be happy,so I need to quit worrying so,coz it is dragging me down.We now have mud ruts eight inches deep,and can,t call anyone to spread new gravel till it drys up.Oh well,he is in spirits hands.Thanks for showing us your place,enjoy,hope you have four wheel drive,coz,I still don,t have,I have front wheel drive,and that helps a little.Happy New year,blessed be,carol Branum,themofarmersdaughter@blogspot.com
 
By: Debbie Anderson
On: 01/19/2010 10:15:45
I know exactly how you feel! We have a cabin in the mountains and it's the one place that I really feel at peace with the world. Lots of my friends love the coast with the vast ocean at their feet but it has always been the mountains that draw me in. And yes, we can only be stewards but I still call it "mine".
 
By: kay
On: 01/19/2010 10:41:10
Rebekah, my music box is Whitney Houston's latest CD, while I enjoy your pics. I love taking pics of MY place. We built our home on acreage formerly untouched (cept loggers). I sometimes wonder how many people have walked the property before me. I share my pics on FB if you choose to gander......winter is my favorite season.
 
By: JoEllen
On: 01/19/2010 10:56:31
Love your post and pictures Rebecca! A little slice of heaven I think. You are richly blessed to have a little of both -- city and country. I have learned to bloom where I am planted -- in my heart a country home like yours, but in reality a city home. But, I try to bring the country to my city home with antique treasures, cottage flowers, struggling garden and dreams of a larger yard. Then when I get restless, my husband and I take to the hills or the ocean and I run free, like you, until it is time to come back to the home where I am planted and I give thanks.
 
By: Mary Rauch
On: 01/19/2010 11:30:13
Thank you; thank you! I will have to come back and look at your blog again. I cannot stop thinking about it and the pictures!
 
By: Reba
On: 01/19/2010 17:39:18
There is NO place like it!! I absolutely enjoyed the "trip" with you and "your" mountain home. Beautiful pictures! Thanks for sharing.
 
By: Renee' Barnhouse
On: 01/19/2010 20:36:58
Rebekah, Thank you for sharing your snow globe. You painted a lovely tranquil picture with your words and your photos. YOUR wonderland reminds me of Vermont. I don't have mountains but I'm so blessed to have views of rolling hills. I enjoyed visiting YOUR haven. I will visit again.
 
By: Kathy
On: 01/20/2010 13:13:20
I'm sitting in my office. I've been looking at documents all day. So glad I checked your blog. Thank you for the escape. May I come to your bubble in person? :)
 
By: Jamie
On: 01/23/2010 05:57:12
Love the pictures. I completely get the joy you were feeling and conveying to us. Thank you for sharing your mountains and your snow globe with us.
 
By: cindy
On: 01/24/2010 06:11:24
I got a card from Mary Jane once, I think it was a ad for her great magazine, I'm not sure - but it had a really cute saying on it "The shortest way home may be down a dirt road". I love that. It's hanging on my bulletin board at work undeneath a picture of my dirt road. Love the pictures of your road home!
 
By: Marilynne Adams
On: 01/24/2010 19:22:42
The girls are right, we have always lived "on the farm", and when friends talk about their vacations to "get away from it all" I think to myself, I don't need to get away, I have it "all" right here at home! We also live in a small canyon, backed by mountains, and a view from our house of a peaceful valley and more mountains. Snow days are gorgeous and summer days as well. I wouldn't trade it for all the plane tickets in the world! Appreciate your little corner of the world, wherever you live. It is your haven.
 
By: maggie
On: 07/15/2010 11:03:50
your pictures and words take me home to the ozarks. i could look at them over and over, as well as your words.
i live in a mid size city now with mountains 4 hours one way and ocean 4 hours the other way. happy ? i'm not sure.
but i do live each day finding the beauty, funny, and as much humor as i can find. what a beautiful lucky family you are. beautiful skies for you,
maggie

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Rebekah Teal
is a "MaryJane Farmgirl" who lives in a large metropolitan area. She is a lawyer who has worked in both criminal defense and prosecution. She has been a judge, a business woman and a stay-at-home mom. In addition to her law degree, she has a Masters of Theological Studies.

"Mustering up the courage to do the things you dream about," she says, "is the essence of being a MaryJane Farmgirl."  Learning to live more organically and closer to nature is Rebekah's current pursuit.  She finds strength and encouragement through MaryJane's writings, life, and products. And MaryJane's Farmgirl Connection provides her a wealth of knowledge from true-blue farmgirls.

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