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Heartbroken farmgirl
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Annette
rio vista Ca
USA
604 Posts

Posted - Mar 07 2011 :  08:01:28 AM  Show Profile  Send Heartbroken farmgirl a Yahoo! Message
Please, please pray for my neighbor. Her sister had a very rough life. She was in the habit of making very bad choices. Recently, she made a decision to turn things around. She has to children by a dead beet dad that never helped, visited, or paid CS. Three weeks ago, the great new man in her life, asked her to marry him. He was helping get her life in order. Things were looking up! Last Thursday, at 38 years of age, she went to sleep, and never woke up. Her children found her, 6 hours after she passed. They do not know why she died!
Saturday, at the memorial, the children's father showed up, claiming he was taking the kids, NOW. They don't even know him. So much shock and pain running through this family. Please keep the whole of them in your prayers, especially lifting up her little ones. Thank you so much. They really need the comfort only God's loving arms can give right now.

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Ninibini
True Blue Farmgirl

7577 Posts

Nini
Pennsylvania
USA
7577 Posts

Posted - Mar 07 2011 :  08:30:26 AM  Show Profile
Oh, Annette... I don't even have the words. I can't imagine what everyone is going through. I will pray and be praying. Warm hugs - Nini

God gave us two hands... one to help ourselves, and one to help others!

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prariehawk
True Blue Farmgirl

2914 Posts

Cindy

2914 Posts

Posted - Mar 07 2011 :  4:45:30 PM  Show Profile
Something similar to this happened to a friend of my cousin's--the father, who was not involved in the kids' lives, came to take them away. My cousin is studying criminal justice and she helped the family get the kids back. The father may NOT have any legal rights. So sad that your neighbor's sister died, but especially if the father hasn't enrolled them in school yet, he may not have any rights. I would suggest your neighbors contact a lawyer.
cindy

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kristin sherrill
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kristin
chickamauga ga
USA
11303 Posts

Posted - Mar 07 2011 :  5:04:10 PM  Show Profile
Annette, I am so sorry to see this. Those poor kids. I will be praying for them. This is so sad.

Kris

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Heartbroken farmgirl
True Blue Farmgirl

604 Posts

Annette
rio vista Ca
USA
604 Posts

Posted - Mar 07 2011 :  5:04:43 PM  Show Profile  Send Heartbroken farmgirl a Yahoo! Message
Cindy,
Thanks. The father wasn't even around to sign the first birth certificate!! It is outrageous! I do not believe he will get these kids, my neighbor has 5 of her own, but the grandmother is trying to take then. My neighbours father, the kids grandpa, just passed away from cancer the week before Christmas. The loss in this family is unthinkable! Thank you so much for the advice. I will pass it on.

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Heartbroken farmgirl
True Blue Farmgirl

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Annette
rio vista Ca
USA
604 Posts

Posted - Mar 07 2011 :  5:07:16 PM  Show Profile  Send Heartbroken farmgirl a Yahoo! Message
Thank you all for the prayers.

The tears I shed then, watered the flowers I harvest now.

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Diane B Carter
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1270 Posts

Diane
Blasdell N.Y.
USA
1270 Posts

Posted - Mar 21 2011 :  06:06:53 AM  Show Profile
How unbelivable & sad, prayers sent.
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Mommyswanson
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463 Posts

Laura
Waukegan IL
USA
463 Posts

Posted - Mar 21 2011 :  10:36:10 AM  Show Profile
praying for this family

Laura

"That which does not kill us makes us strong!" "I cast all my cares upon you Lord."
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Shi-anne
True Blue Farmgirl

596 Posts

Cheryl
Ada OK
USA
596 Posts

Posted - Mar 21 2011 :  10:40:38 AM  Show Profile
Praying for all involved. So sad.

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foreverbooks
True Blue Farmgirl

514 Posts

Carole
Tombstone AZ
USA
514 Posts

Posted - Mar 21 2011 :  10:42:18 AM  Show Profile
I agree with Prariehawk. Contact a lawyer! Yes, that is costly but at least the family would have legal representation. Life can really be rought at times! My prayers go out to the family!

Carole
Arizona Farmgirl Sister #2556
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embchicken
True Blue Farmgirl

1487 Posts

Elaine
Ocean NJ
USA
1487 Posts

Posted - Mar 21 2011 :  1:14:22 PM  Show Profile
My prayers go out to the family - especially the children. Carole is absolutely right - contact a lawyer.

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