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pnickols
True Blue Farmgirl
808 Posts
Patricia
Parma
Ohio
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 Posted - Mar 20 2012 : 03:54:05 AM
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| this has to be some huge ugly mistake..we got a court summons in the mail for my dh yesterday, he and 19 others from his former work are accused of theft I can't believe this is happening to us, he has never stolen anything in his life, we have just now got our finances and life back on track after years of struggle and debt including a bankruptcy and foreclosure. I am so terrified I couldn't eat a thing yesterday, feel nauseous all the time, I don't even know what to do |
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Alee
True Blue Farmgirl
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Posted - Mar 20 2012 : 04:55:16 AM
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Oh my word! How scary! I bet they accused everyone who had access to whatever it is that went missing. Hopefully it is something easy to prove that he did not take an the charges against him will be dismissed. Still- what a horrible experience! *hugs* I am so so sorry!
Alee
Farmgirl Sister #8
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jan49829
True Blue Farmgirl
2428 Posts
Janet
Gladstone
Mi.
USA
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Posted - Mar 20 2012 : 05:13:55 AM
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I will be praying for you that all turns out well. Hopefully if there was theft, that person or persons come forward and confess so everyone does not have to go through all of that. Try to think positive thoughts and hopefully all will be done soon.
Janet
Farmgirl Sister #3340
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jessabelluh
True Blue Farmgirl
360 Posts
Jessica
South Dakota
USA
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Posted - Mar 20 2012 : 06:56:57 AM
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I'm so sorry that you have to go through something like this. Try to stay positive.
In the mean time, do your best to take care of yourself. I know that you're worried, but you need to eat something *hugs*
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marlee
True Blue Farmgirl
1650 Posts
Marlene
DeRidder
Louisiana
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Posted - Mar 20 2012 : 07:07:51 AM
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That is horrible. Sending out prayers that this is over quickly. And the person that is responsilble will do the right thing and come forward so no one else has to suffer because of this accusations. Keep us informed so we can keep prayers going. Hugs Marlee
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pennyhenny
True Blue Farmgirl
304 Posts
Missy
Dayton
OH
USA
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Posted - Mar 20 2012 : 07:38:34 AM
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Prayers and hugs for you. I agree that you must take care of yourself. Start preparing and get everything in order. Sounds like that they are accusing such a larger group because they are unsure who if anyone of the culprit. Years ago a friend of mine was accused of stealing a work sewing machine. This friend along with the other 30 + women who were working the 2nd shift all were accused but they had to drop the charges because nothing could be proved. My friend did have all of her pay stubs, hours she worked and all of her performance reviews with her when she went to defend herself.
hugs,
-missy-
Sisterhood Member#4003
Happiness held is the seed; Happiness shared is the flower.
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Bear5
True Blue Farmgirl
13055 Posts
Louisiana/Texas
USA
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Posted - Mar 20 2012 : 08:04:47 AM
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I will be praying for you and your husband. I am so sorry y'all are going through this.
Marly
"It's only when we truly know and understand that we have a limited time on earth- and that we have no way of knowing when our time is up- that we will begin to live each day to the fullest, as if it was the only one we had." Elisabeth Kurler-Ross |
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oldbittyhen
True Blue Farmgirl
1511 Posts
tina
quartz hill
ca
USA
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Posted - Mar 20 2012 : 08:48:41 AM
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Get a Lawyer ASAP...
"Knowlege is knowing that a tomato is a fruit, Wisdom is not putting it in a fruit salad" |
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GirlwithHook
True Blue Farmgirl
922 Posts
Alyce
Madison
WI
USA
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Posted - Mar 20 2012 : 08:54:22 AM
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Oh hon, I'll be praying. First, eat something. Then, help your hubby gather up ANYTHING that could be used to prove his innocence.
A hook, a book, and a good cup of coffee.... |
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knitnpickinatune
True Blue Farmgirl
1140 Posts
Sherrie
Gardena
California
USA
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Posted - Mar 20 2012 : 08:58:58 AM
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Stay strong and eat for goodness sakes....you need to keep yourself well thru this. It's a common thing to call in "all who had access" so those accusing aren't "targeting" a particular individual or group of individuals. Not that it makes it any easier,but that's why all 19 have been summoned. Good thoughts going your way,nd keep us posted!
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pnickols
True Blue Farmgirl
808 Posts
Patricia
Parma
Ohio
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Posted - Mar 20 2012 : 11:10:49 AM
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| thank you for some support, he called his uncle for help and contacted a lawyer, his boss was also summoned and it isn't real clear why, but I guess he was told everyone who's name appeared on paperwork at teh time was on the list. still scared to death |
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kristin sherrill
True Blue Farmgirl
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kristin
chickamauga
ga
USA
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Posted - Mar 20 2012 : 11:36:06 AM
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Sounds like when the whole class at school is in trouble til one confesses. That happened to my granddaughter recently. I hope it all works out for your hubby. And I know this is hard, but try not to worry too much. You know what worry does to a person.
Kris
Happiness is simple. |
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laurentany
True Blue Farmgirl
3259 Posts
Laurie
Patchogue
NY
USA
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Posted - Mar 20 2012 : 2:17:27 PM
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I agree with what everyone else is saying. I am sure this whole summons thing is just a formality that they have to go through to start a process of going after who they really feel is responsible. I know that doesnt make it any easier, but try your best to let it go a little bit, Breathe deep and exhale. This too shall pass.
Sending prayers your way!
Hugs,
~Laurie
"Little Hen House on the Island"
Farmgirl Sister#1403
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Joey
True Blue Farmgirl
1868 Posts
Joey
Gulf Coast
FL
USA
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Posted - Mar 20 2012 : 3:34:11 PM
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Thinking of you, Patricia and your hubby. Sending big hugs and bigger prayers. Joey
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sjmjgirl
True Blue Farmgirl
566 Posts
Stephanie
Mt. Vernon
Iowa
USA
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Posted - Mar 20 2012 : 8:52:39 PM
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Keeping you in my thoughts Patricia! Keep in mind a summons is not actual charges, so right now they are still investigating. Like everybody says, get your paperwork together and keep calm. I really think everything will work out in the end.
Farmgirl Sister # 3810
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rough start farmgirl
True Blue Farmgirl
3331 Posts
marianne
The Beautiful Pacific NW
Washington State
USA
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Posted - Mar 20 2012 : 9:54:20 PM
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Good grief! How could anyone conclude that 19 people stole something! You are in my thoughts. I know this is so scary. I hope you will be ok through this.
Marianne |
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pnickols
True Blue Farmgirl
808 Posts
Patricia
Parma
Ohio
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Posted - Mar 21 2012 : 03:51:49 AM
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| I know he didn't do anything, he was the manager for the events for a part of the time but this legal stuff scares me. have an attorney, finally slept last night and yes I ate dinner. thanks to everyone |
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FARMALLChick
True Blue Farmgirl
978 Posts
Lora
Alexandria
IN
USA
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Posted - Mar 21 2012 : 11:55:06 AM
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Oh my gosh - hang in there. I got a summons not too long ago for a computer that I paid off years ago. I called the lawyer and told him I thought it was awful funny that they would wait for 3 years and a burned down house to bring about a suit. I haven't heard anything since.
Lora
If it ain't red, leave it in the shed.
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Ninibini
True Blue Farmgirl
7577 Posts
Nini
Pennsylvania
USA
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Posted - Mar 22 2012 : 07:20:51 AM
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I'll be praying for you, Patricia. I can't even imagine the stress you are all going through. God love and bless you - Nini
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wandaj
Farmgirl in Training
38 Posts
Wanda
Buffalo
NY
USA
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Posted - Mar 22 2012 : 08:27:42 AM
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| Praying for you. Relax knowing you are innocent it will be okay. Let go and let God, He will take care of you and your husband. |
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FieldsofThyme
Farmgirl Guide & Schoolmarm / Chapter Leader
4928 Posts
USA
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pnickols
True Blue Farmgirl
808 Posts
Patricia
Parma
Ohio
808 Posts |
Posted - Mar 23 2012 : 2:48:42 PM
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| now we just have to wait for the court date next thursday, his lawyer can't do anything else until then. thanks for your prayers and support, they really do help |
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rough start farmgirl
True Blue Farmgirl
3331 Posts
marianne
The Beautiful Pacific NW
Washington State
USA
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Posted - Mar 25 2012 : 01:14:38 AM
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Patricia,
I hope this all ends on Thursday for you. Praying for you.
Marianne |
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horsefeed
Farmgirl in Training
29 Posts
Carol
Wrightstown
WI
USA
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Posted - Mar 25 2012 : 12:20:12 PM
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| Praying that all goes well and in your favor. Also praying the that the real culprit will be exposed. |
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Alee
True Blue Farmgirl
22944 Posts
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pnickols
True Blue Farmgirl
808 Posts
Patricia
Parma
Ohio
808 Posts |
Posted - Mar 28 2012 : 04:33:04 AM
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| well, the new blow is he is now on unpaid, yes unpaid, administrative leave until this is straightened out. we cannot survive without his pay. I give us about a month then we are in deep trouble..I so hate this.. |
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