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Hogs & Quiches & Prayers Round-up: Lost a loved one |
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texdane
Farmgirl Legend Chapter Leader Chapter Guru
4658 Posts
Nicole
Sandy Hook
CT
USA
4658 Posts |
Posted - Dec 15 2017 : 07:06:08 AM
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Hi Farmgirls,
Last week we lost my beloved aunt, my mom’s twin sister, unexpectedly. She was such an inspiration to me. She loved antiques and animals, raised five children and has grandchildren and great grandchildren. She was “Aunt Nana” to my daughter, a name she coined for herself and we loved that!
I am so blessed that I got to see her in April for spring break. We spent a wonderful day together with my daughter, two of my cousins, my niece and her husband and my brother.
Farmgirls, you would have adored her!
Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole Farmgirl Sister #1155 Suburban Farmgirl Blogger Chapter Leader, CT Simpler Life Sisters Farmgirl of the Month, Jan. 2013
Suburban Farmgirl Blog http://sfgblog.maryjanesfarm.org/
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forgetmenot
True Blue Farmgirl
3602 Posts
Judith
Nora Springs
IA
USA
3602 Posts |
Posted - Dec 15 2017 : 07:16:41 AM
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I'm so sorry for your family's loss, Nicole. Hugs!
Farmgirl sister #3926
"Courage is not the absence of fear, but the belief that something is more important than fear." Ambrose Red Moon |
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YellowRose
True Blue Farmgirl
6790 Posts
Sara
Paris
TX
USA
6790 Posts |
Posted - Dec 15 2017 : 08:30:20 AM
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So sorry Nicole.
Sara~~~ FarmGirl Sister #6034 8/25/14 FarmGirl of the Month Sept 2015. Lord put your arm around my shoulders and your hand over my mouth.
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Blessed in Colorado
True Blue Farmgirl
6436 Posts
Debbie L.
Oregon
USA
6436 Posts |
Posted - Dec 15 2017 : 09:10:32 AM
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Nicole, sending my deepest sympathy for the loss of your beloved Aunt to you and your family. Your Aunt sounds like she was a wonderful woman and blessing!
Hugs, Deb #1582 Blessed in Colorado
FGOTM, Septembe, 2012
"You must do the thing you think you can not do." Eleanor Roosevelt
Women are Angels, and when someone breaks our wings We simply continue to fly on our Broomsticks. We're flexible like that!
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MaryJanesNiece
True Blue Farmgirl
6680 Posts
Krista
Utah
USA
6680 Posts |
Posted - Dec 15 2017 : 1:17:58 PM
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I'm so sorry for your loss Nicole. It's never easy losing loved ones. I hope you and your family can find some peace at this time.
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firecatinc
True Blue Farmgirl
1252 Posts
Lenora
Fulks Run
VA
USA
1252 Posts |
Posted - Dec 15 2017 : 4:15:28 PM
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Nicole, so sorry for your loss. I'm sure you have such wonderful memories with her.
Nora Farmgirl Sister #7131 Farmgirl of the Month, January 2017 http://firecatinc.wordpress.com |
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darlenelovesart
True Blue Farmgirl
7501 Posts
darlene
Loleta
California
USA
7501 Posts |
Posted - Dec 15 2017 : 8:17:24 PM
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Nicole, it is so hard to lose loved ones and at this time of the year even harder. You are in my prayers and your family as well. Take care and know you are loved here as well.
Blessings. darlene
Trust in your faith, not your emotions, when it comes to making life’s decisions.
I have learned that to have a good friend is the purest of all God's gifts, for it is a love that has no exchange of payment. by Frances Farmer
Just follow God unquestioningly. Because you love Him so, for if you trust His judgment there is nothing you need to know.
I trust in you Jesus... FGOTM Nov 2017 |
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ceejay48
Farmgirl Legend/Schoolmarm/Sharpshooter
13564 Posts
CeeJay (CJ)
Dolores
Colorado
USA
13564 Posts |
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GinghamGirl
Schoolmarm
1407 Posts
Joyce
PE
Canada
1407 Posts |
Posted - Dec 16 2017 : 04:51:27 AM
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Nicole - My sincerest condolences - big hugs and prayers.
Joyce Hein Farmgirl Sister #6071 FGOTM April 2016 |
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Red Tractor Girl
True Blue Farmgirl
6517 Posts
Winnie
Gainesville
Fl
USA
6517 Posts |
Posted - Dec 18 2017 : 06:40:36 AM
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Nicole, I am so sorry about your loss. Prayers to you and your family at this time.
Winnie #3109 Red Tractor Girl Farm Sister of the Year 2014-2015 |
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texdane
Farmgirl Legend Chapter Leader Chapter Guru
4658 Posts
Nicole
Sandy Hook
CT
USA
4658 Posts |
Posted - Dec 18 2017 : 07:28:17 AM
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Thanks everyone. I am okay, but will have moments where I am reminded of her or think about her. Found last year’s cards she sent. Worried about my own mama but she seems to be okay. My aunt’s email address was spammed and my mama got an email from her address which upset her a lot. I am praying for my cousins as they lost their dear mama.
We lost my grandpa at Christmas when I was five. Remember it like yesterday, and my grandma on mama’s side at Christmas 20 years ago. Always hard to lose someone but at this time of year it is doubly difficult.
Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole Farmgirl Sister #1155 Suburban Farmgirl Blogger Chapter Leader, CT Simpler Life Sisters Farmgirl of the Month, Jan. 2013
Suburban Farmgirl Blog http://sfgblog.maryjanesfarm.org/
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AnnieinIdaho
True Blue Farmgirl
437 Posts
Annie
ID
USA
437 Posts |
Posted - Dec 18 2017 : 11:48:08 PM
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I am sorry for your loss of your dear Aunt. Whenever you think of her just know that her essence of personhood became integrated with you over the years and your experiences became memories. She is a part of your story and I believe it is because of this that we are so saddened by our loss of loved ones. I remember the ones that have gone on before me and when I do I know what they taught me, what we shared together and I live knowing they made a contribution to my living. We never really forget them but eventually can remember them without such a deep pang of loss. I know I carry a part of them within my own being and so they walk along with me as I continue on in honor of them. I have learned to smile as I remember them and I often say out loud, I miss you. I thank you for our time together. Best to you! Annie
"The turnings of life seldom show a sign-post; or rather, though the sign is always there, it is usually placed some distance back, like the notices that give warning of a bad hill or a level railway-crossing." Edith Wharton, 1913 from 'The Custom of the Country'. |
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levisgrammy
True Blue Farmgirl
9233 Posts
Denise
Beavercreek
Ohio
USA
9233 Posts |
Posted - Dec 19 2017 : 6:34:16 PM
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Nicole, Just now seeing this. I am so very sorry for your loss. I lost my dad in August this year. So I understand. It may be a difficult holiday this year. Prayers for you and family.
~Denise~ Farmgirl Sister #43
"Thy Word is a lamp unto my feet and a light unto my path." Psalm 119:105
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Dreamer42
True Blue Farmgirl
2680 Posts
April
Central
Oregon
USA
2680 Posts |
Posted - Dec 27 2017 : 6:54:16 PM
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Prayers for peace and comfort to you and your family, Nicole.
Dreamer42 Farmgirl Sister #7038 |
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texdane
Farmgirl Legend Chapter Leader Chapter Guru
4658 Posts
Nicole
Sandy Hook
CT
USA
4658 Posts |
Posted - Jan 05 2018 : 07:43:37 AM
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Thank you. It’s surreal. I can’t believe my mama’s beautiful twin sister is gone. It wasn’t expected. I have so many memories to cherish. Wish I could hug my cousins! Hopefully I will see them this year. So hard living so far from family!
Annie, I love what you said! Beautiful way of looking at things.
“We are meant to lose the ones we love, Benjamin. How else would we know how much we love them?” - From “Benjamin Buttons”
Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole Farmgirl Sister #1155 Suburban Farmgirl Blogger Chapter Leader, CT Simpler Life Sisters Farmgirl of the Month, Jan. 2013
Suburban Farmgirl Blog http://sfgblog.maryjanesfarm.org/
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HodgeLodge
True Blue Farmgirl
662 Posts
Tiana
Berkeley Springs
WV
USA
662 Posts |
Posted - Jan 05 2018 : 10:06:13 AM
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Nicole, I am sorry for your loss. She sounds like she was one heck of an inspiration. Her memory will live on with you and your family forever I am sure. Prayers for your family. Tiana
Farmgirl #4817-The greatest gift of the garden is the restoration of the five senses. ~Hanna Rion
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Sobyn
True Blue Farmgirl
752 Posts
Sabrina
Kansas
USA
752 Posts |
Posted - Jan 05 2018 : 4:24:09 PM
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I'm so sorry for your loss.
Sabrina Farmgirl Sister #3275 February 2016 Farmgirl of the Month http://kidscrunchandchrist.com *Journal Through The Bible*The Life Giving Home Study*Homemaker's Bookclub*
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janamarieje
True Blue Farmgirl
1022 Posts
Jana
Southern California
USA
1022 Posts |
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suny58
True Blue Farmgirl
4330 Posts
Dianna
Jack
Al.
USA
4330 Posts |
Posted - Jan 06 2018 : 5:25:16 PM
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Oh Nicole the memories you have!! I am so sorry for your loss and for your mom! I know how sad she must be also!
Farmgirl #7703 Dianna "Blessed are they that see beautiful things in humble places, where other people see nothing." Pissarro |
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texdane
Farmgirl Legend Chapter Leader Chapter Guru
4658 Posts
Nicole
Sandy Hook
CT
USA
4658 Posts |
Posted - Jan 08 2018 : 06:13:19 AM
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Dianna, thank you. Yes, she has been really walking down Memory Lane. I know my aunt is with my grandma and grandpa now. She was an original farmgirl, for sure.
Farmgirl Hugs, Nicole Farmgirl Sister #1155 Suburban Farmgirl Blogger Chapter Leader, CT Simpler Life Sisters Farmgirl of the Month, Jan. 2013
Suburban Farmgirl Blog http://sfgblog.maryjanesfarm.org/
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Joey
True Blue Farmgirl
1868 Posts
Joey
Gulf Coast
FL
USA
1868 Posts |
Posted - Jan 12 2018 : 3:24:23 PM
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Nicole, I am just back on the forum today after years away (as you know), and I saw this. I am so sorry for the loss of your dear aunt. It is so good that you have wonderful memories, and I hope they will bring you some comfort as you deal with the grief. Hugs to you all, Joey
Well behaved women rarely make history. Farmgirl #5554 |
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Hogs & Quiches & Prayers Round-up: Lost a loved one |
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