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| melody |
Posted - Jun 09 2026 : 06:08:15 AM
There he is before he became ill-at the time of death he was well below 170. Unrecognizable-but still and always will be, my best friend and the love of my life. I miss him terribly-
Funeral arrangements have been made with the funeral being held in the church he grew up in- on Tuesday, the 16th of June - one day after our 35th wedding anniversary.
Thank you so much ladies for all of your prayers through out this horror of a disease-It has helped me immensely and I will never forget the kind words. Love, Mel
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Husband passed this morning at 6:15-Hospice was called and she in turn called our funeral director-
We had a very rough night with his breathing and death rattle-He became unresponsive through the day and non verbal that progressed at an alarming rate.
We meet with the funeral director again this afternoon to make arrangements-family has been informed and my daughter is managing the phone calls. I'm numb and very tired-my heart pounding-I made myself a cuppa tea and will sit in the quiet before all that comes with preparing with arranging the details when someone passes. I realize this is all a natural process of death-but you don't really know what happens and how you will respond until it happens-and it's something that everyone will have to deal with eventually which in a way is comforting.
Please continue to pray for strength for my family in the next weeks and months -Thank you ladies for ALWAYS being there for me. Love Mel |
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| Red Tractor Girl |
Posted - Jun 25 2026 : 10:22:18 AM
Melody, Sending you prayers and love for you and your family at this time.
Big hugs to you,
Winnie
Winnie #3109
Red Tractor Girl
Farm Sister of the Year 2014-2015
FGOTM- October 2018 |
| ceejay48 |
Posted - Jun 22 2026 : 8:21:01 PM
Mel, I'm praying that the Lord will just wrap you in His loving and caring arms, providing strength, comfort and grace for you and your family.
Lots of farmgirl sister love and hugs!
CJ
..from the barefoot farmgirl in SW Colorado...sister chick #665.
2010 Farmgirl Sister of the Year
Farmgirl Sharpshooter
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| ruthie218 |
Posted - Jun 22 2026 : 06:28:27 AM
Melody
I am sending prayers your way.
Ruthie Ann
Farmgirl sister#4072 |
| katmom |
Posted - Jun 18 2026 : 10:36:46 PM
Melody, wrapping you and your family in gentle, comforting prayers.
>^..^<
Happiness is being a katmom and Glamping Diva!
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| AussieChick |
Posted - Jun 14 2026 : 6:34:16 PM
Hi Mel - just checking in to see how you're doing. Please know that your farmgirl network of friends are thinking of you at this difficult time.
Farmgirl #6058
Farmgirl Sister of the Year 2021
"The happiest people don't have the best of everything, they just make the best of everything they have". |
| StitchinWitch |
Posted - Jun 12 2026 : 5:20:12 PM
Peace and love to you Mel. What a wonderful picture of him; such kind eyes and a nice smile.
Judith
7932 FGOTM 6/21 6/24 12/25
I'm old and I wear purple |
| levisgrammy |
Posted - Jun 12 2026 : 12:44:33 PM
Mel I'm so sorry for you to have to go through this heartbreak. And so near your anniversary. I'm continuing to pray for you.
~Denise
Sister #43~
"I am a bookaholic and I have no desire to be cured." 
"Home is where we find comfort, security, memories, friendship, hospitality, and above all, family. It is the place that deserves our commitment and loyalty." William J. Bennett
"Thy Word is a lamp unto my feet and a light unto my path." Psalm 119:105
http://www.ladybugsandlilacs.blogspot.com/
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| MaryJanesNiece |
Posted - Jun 10 2026 : 4:28:26 PM
Melody, I am so very sorry for your loss. My heart hurts for you. Sending you and your family many hugs.
Krista
Farmgirl Sister #528
Farmgirl Of The Year 2025 |
| Audra Rose |
Posted - Jun 10 2026 : 12:49:24 PM
I am so sorry for your family's loss.
Vanessa
Farmgirl Sister #6754
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| windypines |
Posted - Jun 10 2026 : 03:59:49 AM
So sorry to hear this. I pray for strength for you and your family.
Farming in WI
Michele
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| Jokamartell |
Posted - Jun 09 2026 : 8:13:58 PM
Oh, sweet, Mel, I’m so very sorry for your loss. My heart is broken for you and your family. You will be in my prayers. So wish I lived closer to you so I could come and hug you. I know you are overwhelmed at all that needs to be done. Once things settle some what, please reach out to me. I will be happy to do what I can to help. Sending so much love and prayers.
Karen :)
To quote one of my past preschoolers “Not one of those Karens, but a good Karen”! Haha |
| Killarney |
Posted - Jun 09 2026 : 5:48:56 PM
Awww I'm so sorry. Praying for you and your family.
Connie Sue |
| treelady |
Posted - Jun 09 2026 : 1:27:00 PM
Oh Mel,
I am so very sorry. My prayers will continue for your family. May your faith and memories help with the grieving.
Hugs
Julie
A little rain can straighten a flower stem. A little love can change a life.
Max Lucado |
| Nancy Joplin |
Posted - Jun 09 2026 : 1:26:30 PM
Melody, so very sorry for the loss of your Love! My God keep you in His loving embrace. Prayers and love go out to you. May you have peace.
Nancy 8352
FGOTM Oct 2024 |
| nndairy |
Posted - Jun 09 2026 : 12:32:26 PM
Adding my prayers as well, Mel.
~Heather
Farmgirl Sister #4701
2026 Farmgirl Sister of the Year
“I would rather be on my farm than be emperor of the world.” — George Washington
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| Blessed in Colorado |
Posted - Jun 09 2026 : 10:33:09 AM
Mel my heart is breaking for you, I am so, so sorry. Keeping you and your family in my heart, thoughts and prayers.
Big Hugs,
Debbie
#1582
Blessed in Oregon
With Colorado on My Mind
Farmgirl of the Month September 2012, February 2018, September 2022, August 2025
“My altars are My Mountains
and the Ocean.” Lord Byron”
When I am Old I Shall Wear Purple, I am Old now!!
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| StitchinWitch |
Posted - Jun 09 2026 : 10:09:43 AM
So very sorry Melody. I know there are no words that convey my feelings. Time, memories, and family will help.
Judith
7932 FGOTM 6/21 6/24 12/25
I'm old and I wear purple |
| ddmashayekhi |
Posted - Jun 09 2026 : 09:14:01 AM
I'm so sorry for your loss Melody. Praying for you and your loved ones at this very sad and heartbreaking time. We are always here for you.
Dawn in IL
"May is the month of expectation, the month of wishes, the month of hope." - Emily Brontë |
| Simple Living |
Posted - Jun 09 2026 : 08:12:25 AM
Melody, My heart goes out to you and your family. God will watch over you. Be strong and know you are loved here. Hugs.
Isaiah 30:15 Your strength will be in keeping calm and showing trust.
Farmgirl #3842 |
| lovinRchickens |
Posted - Jun 09 2026 : 07:19:56 AM
Melody
I am so sorry to hear. May God hold you close in the days ahead. Prayers continue for you and your family.
Farmgirl #5111
Farmgirl of the month October 2014 & January 2019
Blessings
~Kelly~ |
| levisgrammy |
Posted - Jun 09 2026 : 07:07:56 AM
Melody,
So very sorry. You are right about not knowing till it happens. Grieving is a gift and a way to keep the memories going. May God be with you and comfort you in the way that only he can. I am praying for you and your family.
~Denise
Sister #43~
"I am a bookaholic and I have no desire to be cured."
"Home is where we find comfort, security, memories, friendship, hospitality, and above all, family. It is the place that deserves our commitment and loyalty." William J. Bennett
"Thy Word is a lamp unto my feet and a light unto my path." Psalm 119:105
http://www.ladybugsandlilacs.blogspot.com/
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| debbieklann |
Posted - Jun 09 2026 : 07:00:33 AM
So beautifully said, Dianna and Her Wanda. I am so sorry, Melody…I will keep all of you in my prayers.
Debbie Klann
Farmgirl Sister #770
2018 Farmgirl of the Year
"Well behaved women seldom make history"....Laurel Thatcher Ulrich |
| suny58 |
Posted - Jun 09 2026 : 06:44:57 AM
Melody, heavy sigh, im crying as I feel your hurt and ache. Im so sorry, so very sorry. My heartfelt prayers and thoughts are with you. I pray. God wraps his arms of love around you and your family and comfort you with peace, Knowing that your husband is resting from all his pain now and that you'll see him again soon. So much love being sent your way!
Farmgirl #7103
FGOTM January 2018
Dianna
"Blessed are they that see beautiful things in humble places, where other people see nothing." Pissarro |
| Wanda Sue |
Posted - Jun 09 2026 : 06:17:29 AM
Oh Melody my heart breaks for you and your family. Thinking of you all with love and prayers and sending hugs. May God give you the strength and comfort you need in the days and weeks ahead.
A day hemmed in prayer is less likely to unravel.
Farm Girl #3677
Farmgirl of the Month: Aug/2022
Feb/2026
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