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Hogs & Quiches & Prayers Round-up:  Please keep my Dad in your thoughts...  |
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oldbittyhen
True Blue Farmgirl
1511 Posts
tina
quartz hill
ca
USA
1511 Posts |
 Posted - May 21 2013 : 08:11:58 AM
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it was deceided to stop medical treatment, except for comfort and pain management, these decisions were not made lightly, and even before this medical issues came on, the directives and DNR were in place...my dad and I have always been very close, and as all of my wonderful childhood memories have been dancing in my mind, all I want is for him to have peace and be pain free...
"Knowlege is knowing that a tomato is a fruit, Wisdom is not putting it in a fruit salad" |
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treelady
True Blue Farmgirl
2376 Posts
Julie
Medina
ND
USA
2376 Posts |
Posted - May 21 2013 : 4:51:52 PM
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Tina,my prayers continue to be with you and your family.
Hugs
Julie
A little rain can straighten a flower stem. A little love can change a life.
Max Lucado |
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kysheeplady
True Blue Farmgirl
1291 Posts
Teri
KY
USA
1291 Posts |
Posted - May 21 2013 : 5:01:23 PM
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Oh friend,
I will keep you all in my prayers, and will pray for less pain for your Dad ... i too had to make the same decision, many years ago. Not easy to say comfort measures only. My heart aches for you, as I know what you are going through.
Teri
"There are black sheep in every flock"
http://whitesheepfarm.wordpress.com/ |
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oldbittyhen
True Blue Farmgirl
1511 Posts
tina
quartz hill
ca
USA
1511 Posts |
Posted - May 28 2013 : 7:03:37 PM
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my dad is going fast, its just breaking my heart, please keep him with thoughts that he is as pain free as possible and is in as much peace as possible...
"Knowlege is knowing that a tomato is a fruit, Wisdom is not putting it in a fruit salad" |
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Ninibini
True Blue Farmgirl
7577 Posts
Nini
Pennsylvania
USA
7577 Posts |
Posted - May 28 2013 : 7:45:42 PM
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Oh my... Tina, I will be praying for you and your Dad. I'm so, so sorry. Much love to you - Nini
Farmgirl Sister #1974
God gave us two hands... one to help ourselves, and one to help others!
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darlenelovesart
True Blue Farmgirl
8035 Posts
darlene
Loleta
California
USA
8035 Posts |
Posted - May 28 2013 : 8:13:19 PM
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Tina, I am so sorry that things are going the way they are and am praying for the pain to be eased and your dad to be comfortable and for you and your family for strength to go through everything with God by your side.
Blessings and love
darlene
I have learned that to have a good friend is the purest of all God's gifts, for it is a love that has no exchange of payment.
by Frances Farmer
Just follow God unquestioningly.
Because you love Him so, for if you trust His judgment there is nothing you need to know.
I trust in you Jesus... |
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HealingTouch
True Blue Farmgirl
3448 Posts
Darlene
Kunkletown
Pa
USA
3448 Posts |
Posted - May 28 2013 : 8:27:02 PM
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Tina, Just saw this. I am praying for his healing , comfort and peace. The Lord heals all of us. Some on this earth and all
of us in heaven where we are perfect and whole. My father had leukemia and my mother a brain hemorrhage. I had to make the
decisions also. Be at peace. You are doing the right thing. You are all in my prayers.
Be Blessed,
Darlene
Sister 1922
God first, everything else after!
When Satan's knocking at your door, just say "Jesus will you get that for me?"
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Cindy Lou
True Blue Farmgirl
2325 Posts
Susan
Lonsdale
MN
USA
2325 Posts |
Posted - May 28 2013 : 8:33:19 PM
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Dear Tina,
These last few weeks have been so hard for your family.The change have come so suddenly and drastically. Your love for your Dad tells you he needs to be free of pain. Just as you love him, his love for you,if he could act on it now, would want you to remember him as the person you knew and loved and not keep him lingering so changed. My prayers continue for all of you. Knowing what is right does not take away the loss,but I hope it gives you peace inn some way.
Susan
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laurentany
True Blue Farmgirl
3259 Posts
Laurie
Patchogue
NY
USA
3259 Posts |
Posted - May 29 2013 : 05:14:50 AM
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Tina,
I am praying for peace and comfort. I've been where you are with my dad too, and it is so difficult. I'm sending you hugs and comfort and support.
God Bless,
~Laurie
"Little Hen House on the Island"
Farmgirl Sister#1403
View my New Blog:
http://simplesuburbanpleasures.blogspot.com
Don't judge each day by the harvest you reap, but by the seeds that you plant.
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wooliespinner
True Blue Farmgirl
1311 Posts
Linda
Manchester
Ohio
1311 Posts |
Posted - May 29 2013 : 09:52:21 AM
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Tina prayers for your father and your family. I am so sorry you all have to go through this. I can't imagine what you are going through right now. Hugs and comfort to you all.
Linda
Raspberry Run Farm
Nubian Dairy Goats |
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Bear5
True Blue Farmgirl
13055 Posts
Louisiana/Texas
USA
13055 Posts |
Posted - Jun 01 2013 : 09:32:29 AM
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My love, hugs, and sympathy to my Friend. You and your family will be in my prayers.
Marly
"It's only when we truly know and understand that we have a limited time on earth- and that we have no way of knowing when our time is up- that we will begin to live each day to the fullest, as if it was the only one we had." Elisabeth Kurler-Ross |
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oldbittyhen
True Blue Farmgirl
1511 Posts
tina
quartz hill
ca
USA
1511 Posts |
Posted - Jun 01 2013 : 1:56:14 PM
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my Dad passed with the utmost peace today with my Mom laying next to him, they would have been married 64 yrs next month...he is with all family that has gone before him, and is no longer in pain...
"Knowlege is knowing that a tomato is a fruit, Wisdom is not putting it in a fruit salad" |
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jan49829
True Blue Farmgirl
2428 Posts
Janet
Gladstone
Mi.
USA
2428 Posts |
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wooliespinner
True Blue Farmgirl
1311 Posts
Linda
Manchester
Ohio
1311 Posts |
Posted - Jun 01 2013 : 4:26:53 PM
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So sorry Tina. Glad it was peaceful for him and your mother and you too. My heart and prayers go out to you and your family. And wow what a long time to be married... thats incredible and wonderful. Peace and Hugs.
Linda
Raspberry Run Farm
Nubian Dairy Goats |
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crafter
True Blue Farmgirl
2313 Posts
lori
Fort Atkinson
Wisconsin
USA
2313 Posts |
Posted - Jun 01 2013 : 5:47:36 PM
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Tina keeping you and your family in my prayers and very close to my heart. Sending you hug and strength. It is very good to know in your heart that he is at peace and in no more pain- but the loss we feel is so hard. Please feel the love I am sending your way.
Lori
God has promised strength for the day, rest for the labor, light for the way, grace for the trials, help from above, unfailing sympathy and undying love.
We are here to love each other, serve each other and uplift each other. |
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HealingTouch
True Blue Farmgirl
3448 Posts
Darlene
Kunkletown
Pa
USA
3448 Posts |
Posted - Jun 01 2013 : 7:12:30 PM
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Tina, My deepest sympathy to you and your family. How sweet that your mother was able to be next to him. 64 years is an amazing accomplishment of dedication and love. Peace and God's blessings in this time of sorrow.
Be Blessed,
Darlene
Sister 1922
God first, everything else after!
When Satan's knocking at your door, just say "Jesus will you get that for me?"
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darlenelovesart
True Blue Farmgirl
8035 Posts
darlene
Loleta
California
USA
8035 Posts |
Posted - Jun 01 2013 : 10:23:54 PM
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Oh Tina,
I am so glad he was able to go peacefully with your mom there with him. 64 wonderful years together how awesome that was.
I will put you and your mom in my prayers for comfort and knowing God was there to make him at peace and now out of pain.
blessings
darlene
I have learned that to have a good friend is the purest of all God's gifts, for it is a love that has no exchange of payment.
by Frances Farmer
Just follow God unquestioningly.
Because you love Him so, for if you trust His judgment there is nothing you need to know.
I trust in you Jesus... |
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darlenelovesart
True Blue Farmgirl
8035 Posts
darlene
Loleta
California
USA
8035 Posts |
Posted - Jun 01 2013 : 10:27:15 PM
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Originally posted by darlenelovesart
Oh Tina,
I am so glad he was able to go peacefully with your mom there with him. 64 wonderful years together how awesome that was.
I will put you and your mom in my prayers for comfort and knowing God was there to make him at peace and now out of pain.
I would love to send you mom and you a card if it is ok.
blessings
darlene
I have learned that to have a good friend is the purest of all God's gifts, for it is a love that has no exchange of payment.
by Frances Farmer
Just follow God unquestioningly.
Because you love Him so, for if you trust His judgment there is nothing you need to know.
I trust in you Jesus...
I have learned that to have a good friend is the purest of all God's gifts, for it is a love that has no exchange of payment.
by Frances Farmer
Just follow God unquestioningly.
Because you love Him so, for if you trust His judgment there is nothing you need to know.
I trust in you Jesus... |
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Bear5
True Blue Farmgirl
13055 Posts
Louisiana/Texas
USA
13055 Posts |
Posted - Jun 02 2013 : 8:10:08 PM
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Tina, I am so sorry for your loss. Hugs to you and your family. I wish I could be with you during your grief. I will be there in spirit. I will say many prayers for your dad, your mom, and your family members.
Big hugs to the boys. Please give each member of your family a personal hug from me. I love them all.
I was mowing some very thick & high grass today and I could feel J poking me. There was a rattle snake hanging on the fence I was about to pass by. Please tell J thank you. A million big hug to you dear Friend.
Marly
"It's only when we truly know and understand that we have a limited time on earth- and that we have no way of knowing when our time is up- that we will begin to live each day to the fullest, as if it was the only one we had." Elisabeth Kurler-Ross |
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darlenelovesart
True Blue Farmgirl
8035 Posts
darlene
Loleta
California
USA
8035 Posts |
Posted - Jun 02 2013 : 9:19:30 PM
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Wow! Marly I sure am glad you were protected out there. That must have been totally scarey. We don't have many snakes here but one day years ago I was coming in my back door and I looked down and their was a snake next to my door and I thinking garter snake and I by passed it and thought I should get it but it slipped down in to a hole under the sidewalk but I got a good enough look at it and it was a rattler. We think that it came off of a logging truck that came through. Anyway the next day it was sunning itself in front of the post office and someone came up and grabbed it behind it's head and took it away. We figured it was too cold out here for it so was not moving as fast as it could. We have never had another one thank goodness, and that was freaky.
darlene
I have learned that to have a good friend is the purest of all God's gifts, for it is a love that has no exchange of payment.
by Frances Farmer
Just follow God unquestioningly.
Because you love Him so, for if you trust His judgment there is nothing you need to know.
I trust in you Jesus... |
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Ninibini
True Blue Farmgirl
7577 Posts
Nini
Pennsylvania
USA
7577 Posts |
Posted - Jun 03 2013 : 05:07:03 AM
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God bless you and your family, Tina. May He be a tremendous help to all of you right now, and always. I will be lifting you all up in prayer. Hugs - Nini
Farmgirl Sister #1974
God gave us two hands... one to help ourselves, and one to help others!
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craftingram
True Blue Farmgirl
528 Posts
Karin
Nashville
In
USA
528 Posts |
Posted - Jun 03 2013 : 05:31:30 AM
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Tina, I'm so sorry for the loss of your precious father. I'm glad your mother was at his side and that he is no longer in pain. Keeping you and your family in prayer.
Karin
Farmgirl Sister #2708
Romans 8: 38,39 |
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laurentany
True Blue Farmgirl
3259 Posts
Laurie
Patchogue
NY
USA
3259 Posts |
Posted - Jun 03 2013 : 09:50:49 AM
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Tina,
I just read your update.
I am sorry for the loss of your dear father.
How sweet that he went peacefully with your mom-his loving wife of almost 64 years right by his side.
His love is shining down on all of you from heaven right now.
Hugs to you.
~Laurie
"Little Hen House on the Island"
Farmgirl Sister#1403
View my New Blog:
http://simplesuburbanpleasures.blogspot.com
Don't judge each day by the harvest you reap, but by the seeds that you plant.
~Robert Louis Stevenson |
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treelady
True Blue Farmgirl
2376 Posts
Julie
Medina
ND
USA
2376 Posts |
Posted - Jun 03 2013 : 10:03:55 AM
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Tina, I am so sorry for your loss.
A little rain can straighten a flower stem. A little love can change a life.
Max Lucado |
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Bear5
True Blue Farmgirl
13055 Posts
Louisiana/Texas
USA
13055 Posts |
Posted - Jun 03 2013 : 4:51:47 PM
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Wow! What beautiful words to Tina. Farm girls have such a big heart and such comforting words. Love and hugs to you Tina.
Marly
"It's only when we truly know and understand that we have a limited time on earth- and that we have no way of knowing when our time is up- that we will begin to live each day to the fullest, as if it was the only one we had." Elisabeth Kurler-Ross |
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Hogs & Quiches & Prayers Round-up: Please keep my Dad in your thoughts... |
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Please keep my Dad in your thoughts...
