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                 texdane 
                Farmgirl Legend Chapter Leader Chapter Guru 
                      
                4658 Posts
   
                Nicole 
                Sandy Hook 
                CT 
                
                USA 
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                       Posted - Dec 15 2017 :  07:06:08 AM
                        
                      
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                      Hi Farmgirls,
  Last week we lost my beloved aunt, my mom’s twin sister, unexpectedly. She was such an inspiration to me. She loved antiques and animals, raised five children and has grandchildren and great grandchildren. She was “Aunt Nana” to my daughter, a name she coined for herself and we loved that!
  I am so blessed that I got to see her in April for spring break. We spent a wonderful day together with my daughter, two of my cousins, my niece and her husband and my brother. 
  Farmgirls, you would have adored her!
  Farmgirl Hugs,  Nicole Farmgirl Sister #1155 Suburban Farmgirl Blogger Chapter Leader, CT Simpler Life Sisters Farmgirl of the Month, Jan. 2013
  Suburban Farmgirl Blog http://sfgblog.maryjanesfarm.org/
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                 forgetmenot 
                True Blue Farmgirl 
                      
                3602 Posts
  
                Judith 
                Nora Springs 
                IA 
                USA 
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                       Posted - Dec 15 2017 :  07:16:41 AM
                        
                      
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                      I'm so sorry for your family's loss, Nicole. Hugs!
  Farmgirl sister #3926
  "Courage is not the absence of fear, but the belief that something is more important than fear." Ambrose Red Moon | 
                     
                    
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                 YellowRose 
                True Blue Farmgirl 
                      
                7475 Posts
   
                Sara 
                Paris 
                TX 
                USA 
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                       Posted - Dec 15 2017 :  08:30:20 AM
                        
                      
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                      So sorry Nicole.
  Sara~~~  FarmGirl Sister #6034 8/25/14 FarmGirl of the Month Sept 2015.  Lord put your arm around my shoulders and your hand over my mouth.
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                 Blessed in Colorado 
                True Blue Farmgirl 
                      
                7398 Posts
   
                Debbie L. 
                  
                Oregon 
                USA 
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                       Posted - Dec 15 2017 :  09:10:32 AM
                        
                      
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                      Nicole, sending my deepest sympathy for the loss of your beloved Aunt to you and your family. Your Aunt sounds like she was a wonderful woman and blessing!
  Hugs, Deb #1582 Blessed in Colorado
  FGOTM, Septembe, 2012
  "You must do the thing you think you can not do." Eleanor Roosevelt
  Women are Angels, and when someone breaks our wings We simply continue to fly on our Broomsticks. We're flexible like that!
  http://shopus.longaberger.com/mountainwingslongabergerbaskets http://myworld.ebay.com/debbt | 
                     
                    
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                 MaryJanesNiece 
                True Blue Farmgirl 
                      
                7965 Posts
   
                Krista 
                  
                Utah 
                USA 
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                       Posted - Dec 15 2017 :  1:17:58 PM
                        
                      
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                      I'm so sorry for your loss Nicole. It's never easy losing loved ones. I hope you and your family can find some peace at this time.
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                 firecatinc 
                True Blue Farmgirl 
                      
                1252 Posts
   
                Lenora 
                Fulks Run 
                VA 
                USA 
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                       Posted - Dec 15 2017 :  4:15:28 PM
                        
                      
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                      Nicole, so sorry for your loss.  I'm sure you have such wonderful memories with her.
  Nora  Farmgirl Sister #7131 Farmgirl of the Month, January 2017 http://firecatinc.wordpress.com | 
                     
                    
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                 darlenelovesart 
                True Blue Farmgirl 
                      
                8030 Posts
  
                darlene 
                Loleta 
                California 
                USA 
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                       Posted - Dec 15 2017 :  8:17:24 PM
                        
                      
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                      Nicole, it is so hard to lose loved ones and at this time of the year even harder. You are in my prayers and your family as well. Take care and know you are loved here as well.
  Blessings. darlene
  Trust in your faith, not your emotions, when it comes to making life’s decisions.
  I have learned that to have a good friend is the purest of all God's gifts, for it is a love that has no exchange of payment. by Frances Farmer
  Just follow God unquestioningly. Because you love Him so, for if you trust His judgment there is nothing you need to know.
  I trust in you Jesus... FGOTM Nov 2017 | 
                     
                    
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                 ceejay48 
                Farmgirl Legend/Schoolmarm/Sharpshooter 
                      
                13859 Posts
   
                CeeJay (CJ) 
                Dolores 
                Colorado 
                USA 
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                 GinghamGirl 
                Schoolmarm 
                      
                1422 Posts
   
                Joyce 
                  
                PE 
                Canada 
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                       Posted - Dec 16 2017 :  04:51:27 AM
                        
                      
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                      Nicole - My sincerest condolences - big hugs and prayers.
  Joyce Hein Farmgirl Sister #6071 FGOTM April 2016 | 
                     
                    
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                 Red Tractor Girl 
                True Blue Farmgirl 
                      
                6838 Posts
   
                Winnie 
                Gainesville 
                Fl 
                USA 
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                       Posted - Dec 18 2017 :  06:40:36 AM
                        
                      
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                      Nicole, I am so sorry about your loss.  Prayers to you and your family at this time.
  Winnie #3109 Red Tractor Girl Farm Sister of the Year 2014-2015 | 
                     
                    
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                 texdane 
                Farmgirl Legend Chapter Leader Chapter Guru 
                      
                4658 Posts
   
                Nicole 
                Sandy Hook 
                CT 
                USA 
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                       Posted - Dec 18 2017 :  07:28:17 AM
                        
                      
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                      Thanks everyone. I am okay, but will have moments where I am reminded of her or think about her. Found last year’s cards she sent. Worried about my own mama but she seems to be okay. My aunt’s email address was spammed and my mama got an email from her address which upset her a lot. I am praying for my cousins as they lost their dear mama. 
  We lost my grandpa at Christmas when I was five. Remember it like yesterday, and my grandma on mama’s side at Christmas 20 years ago. Always hard to lose someone but at this time of year it is doubly difficult. 
 
 
  Farmgirl Hugs,  Nicole Farmgirl Sister #1155 Suburban Farmgirl Blogger Chapter Leader, CT Simpler Life Sisters Farmgirl of the Month, Jan. 2013
  Suburban Farmgirl Blog http://sfgblog.maryjanesfarm.org/
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                 AnnieinIdaho 
                True Blue Farmgirl 
                     
                437 Posts
  
                Annie 
                  
                ID 
                USA 
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                       Posted - Dec 18 2017 :  11:48:08 PM
                        
                      
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                      I am sorry for your loss of your dear Aunt.  Whenever you think of her just know that her essence of personhood became integrated with you over the years and your experiences became memories.  She is a part of your story and I believe it is because of this that we are so saddened by our loss of loved ones.  I remember the ones that have gone on before me and when I do I know what they taught me, what we shared together and I live knowing they made a contribution to my living.  We never really forget them but eventually can remember them without such a deep pang of loss. I know I carry a part of them within my own being and so they walk along with me as I continue on in honor of them. I have learned to smile as I remember them and I often say out loud, I miss you.  I thank you for our time together.  Best to you! Annie
  "The turnings of life seldom show a sign-post; or rather, though the sign is always there, it is usually placed some distance back, like the notices that give warning of a bad hill or a level railway-crossing."  Edith Wharton, 1913 from 'The Custom of the Country'. | 
                     
                    
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                 levisgrammy 
                True Blue Farmgirl 
                      
                9661 Posts
   
                Denise 
                Beavercreek 
                Ohio 
                USA 
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                       Posted - Dec 19 2017 :  6:34:16 PM
                        
                      
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                      Nicole,  Just now seeing this. I am so very sorry for your loss. I lost my dad in August this year. So I understand. It may be a difficult holiday this year. Prayers for you and family.
  ~Denise~  Farmgirl Sister #43
  "Thy Word is a lamp unto my feet and a light unto my path." Psalm 119:105
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                 Dreamer42 
                True Blue Farmgirl 
                      
                2833 Posts
   
                April 
                Central 
                Oregon 
                USA 
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                       Posted - Dec 27 2017 :  6:54:16 PM
                        
                      
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                      Prayers for peace and comfort to you and your family, Nicole.
  Dreamer42 Farmgirl Sister #7038 | 
                     
                    
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                 texdane 
                Farmgirl Legend Chapter Leader Chapter Guru 
                      
                4658 Posts
   
                Nicole 
                Sandy Hook 
                CT 
                USA 
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                       Posted - Jan 05 2018 :  07:43:37 AM
                        
                      
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                      Thank you. It’s surreal. I can’t believe my mama’s beautiful twin sister is gone. It wasn’t expected. I have so many memories to cherish. Wish I could hug my cousins! Hopefully I will see them this year. So hard living so far from family!
  Annie, I love what you said! Beautiful way of looking at things.
  “We are meant to lose the ones we love, Benjamin. How else would we know how much we love them?” - From “Benjamin Buttons”
  Farmgirl Hugs,  Nicole Farmgirl Sister #1155 Suburban Farmgirl Blogger Chapter Leader, CT Simpler Life Sisters Farmgirl of the Month, Jan. 2013
  Suburban Farmgirl Blog http://sfgblog.maryjanesfarm.org/
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                 HodgeLodge 
                True Blue Farmgirl 
                      
                662 Posts
  
                Tiana 
                Berkeley Springs 
                WV 
                USA 
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                       Posted - Jan 05 2018 :  10:06:13 AM
                        
                      
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                      Nicole, I am sorry for your loss. She sounds like she was one heck of an inspiration. Her memory will live on with you and your family forever I am sure. Prayers for your family. Tiana
  Farmgirl #4817-The greatest gift of the garden is the restoration of the five senses.  ~Hanna Rion
 
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                 Sobyn 
                True Blue Farmgirl 
                      
                752 Posts
  
                Sabrina 
                  
                Kansas 
                USA 
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                       Posted - Jan 05 2018 :  4:24:09 PM
                        
                      
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                      I'm so sorry for your loss.
 
 Sabrina Farmgirl Sister #3275 February 2016 Farmgirl of the Month http://kidscrunchandchrist.com *Journal Through The Bible*The Life Giving Home Study*Homemaker's Bookclub*
 
 
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                 janamarieje 
                True Blue Farmgirl 
                      
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                Jana 
                  
                Southern California 
                USA 
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                 suny58 
                True Blue Farmgirl 
                      
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                Dianna 
                Jack 
                Al. 
                USA 
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                       Posted - Jan 06 2018 :  5:25:16 PM
                        
                      
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                      Oh Nicole the memories you have!! I am so sorry for your loss and for your mom! I know how sad she must be also!
  Farmgirl #7703 Dianna "Blessed are they that see beautiful things in humble places, where other people see nothing." Pissarro | 
                     
                    
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                 texdane 
                Farmgirl Legend Chapter Leader Chapter Guru 
                      
                4658 Posts
   
                Nicole 
                Sandy Hook 
                CT 
                USA 
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                       Posted - Jan 08 2018 :  06:13:19 AM
                        
                      
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                      Dianna, thank you. Yes, she has been really walking down Memory Lane. I know my aunt is with my grandma and grandpa now. She was an original farmgirl, for sure. 
 
 
  Farmgirl Hugs,  Nicole Farmgirl Sister #1155 Suburban Farmgirl Blogger Chapter Leader, CT Simpler Life Sisters Farmgirl of the Month, Jan. 2013
  Suburban Farmgirl Blog http://sfgblog.maryjanesfarm.org/
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                 Joey 
                True Blue Farmgirl 
                      
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                Joey 
                Gulf Coast 
                FL 
                USA 
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                       Posted - Jan 12 2018 :  3:24:23 PM
                        
                      
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                      Nicole, I am just back on the forum today after years away (as you know), and I saw this. I am so sorry for the loss of your dear aunt. It is so good that you have wonderful memories, and I hope they will bring you some comfort as you deal with the grief.   Hugs to you all, Joey
  Well behaved women rarely make history. Farmgirl #5554 | 
                     
                    
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