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Cindy Lou Posted - Jul 17 2014 : 2:10:39 PM
A friend shared this and I want to pass it on. If you are a mother or a daughter, or both, it is important.



My dear girl, the day you see I'm getting old, I ask you to please be patient, but most of all, try to understand what I'm going through. If when we talk, I repeat the same thing a thousand times, don't interrupt to say: "You said the same thing a minute ago"... Just listen, please. Try to remember the times when you were little and I would read the same story night after night until you would fall asleep.

When I don't want to take a bath, don't be mad and don't embarrass me. Remember when I had to run after you making excuses and trying to get you to take a shower when you were just a girl?

When you see how ignorant I am when it comes to new technology, give me the time to learn and don't look at me that way ... remember, honey, I patiently taught you how to do many things like eating appropriately, getting dressed, combing your hair and dealing with life's issues every day... the day you see I'm getting old, I ask you to please be patient, but most of all, try to understand what I'm going through.

If I occasionally lose track of what we're talking about, give me the time to remember, and if I can't, don't be nervous, impatient or arrogant. Just know in your heart that the most important thing for me is to be with you.

And when my old, tired legs don't let me move as quickly as before, give me your hand the same way that I offered mine to you when you first walked. When those days come, don't feel sad... just be with me, and understand me while I get to the end of my life with love. I'll cherish and thank you for the gift of time and joy we shared. With a big smile and the huge love I've always had for you, I just want to say, I love you ... my darling daughter.

Original text in Spanish and photo by Guillermo Peņa.
Translation to English by Sergio Cadena

Susan

"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?"
Mary Oliver
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girlfriday Posted - Aug 26 2014 : 6:45:13 PM
That was beautiful...sniff sniff...
ceejay48 Posted - Aug 26 2014 : 6:16:21 PM
Beautiful!
Thank you!
CJ

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coaloha Posted - Aug 14 2014 : 11:12:13 PM
This is beautiful. Thank you for sharing.

Pam
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HealingTouch Posted - Jul 22 2014 : 7:42:00 PM
Beautiful and so true. Thanks for sharing!

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Darlene
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crafter Posted - Jul 22 2014 : 2:33:09 PM
It is very beautiful- brought tears to my eyes!! And I will be passing this to each of my daughters!!

Lori

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We are here to love each other, serve each other and uplift each other.
Bear5 Posted - Jul 21 2014 : 12:05:53 PM
Beautiful, Susan! Thanks for sharing.
Marly

"It's only when we truly know and understand that we have a limited time on earth- and that we have no way of knowing when our time is up- that we will begin to live each day to the fullest, as if it was the only one we had." Elisabeth Kurler-Ross
Ninibini Posted - Jul 18 2014 : 10:29:14 AM
Susan... I just love this... Thank you for sharing! I am going to pass this loving wisdom along! Hugs - Nini


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Cindy Lou Posted - Jul 17 2014 : 8:34:05 PM
Of course, Mary Beth, I think it should be shared with as many people as possible!

Susan

"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?"
Mary Oliver
Marybeth Posted - Jul 17 2014 : 6:52:49 PM
I love it. May I copy it for my daughters? MB

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jan49829 Posted - Jul 17 2014 : 3:00:37 PM
That is Beautiful!

Jan
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