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Across the Fence:  Just Five More Days!  |
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Ninibini
True Blue Farmgirl
7577 Posts
Nini
Pennsylvania
USA
7577 Posts |
 Posted - May 16 2015 : 10:30:12 AM
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Hi Girls!
Five more days... Just FIVE more days... And then it's over... Homeschool will be finished, all the reporting will be done, the final private evaluation will have taken place... All the documentation will be submitted to the Superintendent's office for the final time... All the required paperwork will be off to PHAA... Everything will be in place for graduation and celebrating... and college! My boy will finally be on his own, no longer a boy, but a man, ready to explore the world and discover his purpose! I am very proud of the stellar, independent, wise (sometimes wise-cracking), genuinely good, honorable, God-loving man he has become! On to exciting, new chapters to our lives! I feel the burden lifting! The excitement is welling up inside!
Suddenly the sing-songy saying, "No more pencils, no more books, no more teachers dirty looks," suddenly takes on a whole new meaning for me. Actually now it should more appropriately be sung, "No more papers, no more reports, no more student's snarky retorts!" < Would a little Mommy dance be totally inappropriate? ;) >
SO true...No more books, no more snarky comebacks, no more pulling teeth, no more rolled eyes, no more stressful test taking, no more deadlines, no more arguments, no more typing or reading or reviewing or pounding out lesson plans, test papers or grades… and no more wonderful times of discovery together, just the two of us, "the team"... :( Finis. Complete. Roger Wilko. Over and out. My job will have been done. Mommy will have left the building.
No more Plato... No more Homer or Livy or Virgil or Cicero or Plutarch or Tacitus... Goodbye Chaucer and Rabelais, you crazy kats... Arrivederci Machiavelli... Hasta la vista, Cervantes... Uh - Buh Bye Bacon... Many returns, Milton... Smooth sailing, Twain... I nod to you, oh Bard of Avon... You are part of my soul, native brothers and sisters of America -especially you, wise Metacom, honorable and praiseworthy visionary Tecumseh, brave Cherokee nation and John Ross, fierce Geronimo, the persevering Lakota people, and those who stood at Wounded Knee – yes, in my heart you, indeed, SHALL remain! Thank you, Paine and Locke and Thoreau and Emerson and Kant... Dream on, Whitman, my dear old friend.... I'll always remember you fondly, Aslan, Samwise Gamgee, Antonia, Miss Jane Pittman, Huck, Dagny, John Galt, and Jo and Meg and Beth and Amy... I treasure your works, Mr. Lewis and Mr. Tolkien - thank you. Bless you, St. Augustine, St. Thomas Aquinas, St. Thomas More and Dr. Scott Hahn... Thank you, David McCullough, Harriet Beecher Stowe, Barbara Tuchman, Erich Maria Remarque, Dick Winters and Steven Ambrose, for telling things as they were. And to you, oh Pilgrims from across the seas, Governor Bradford, and our founding fathers, especially John Adams and Thomas Jefferson, your courage, determination and words will never leave me; I am, indeed, a better person for knowing you. And, thank you, Mac and John and Dave, for keeping my eyes open and my understanding clear. To ALL of you who have put paper to pen in order to enlighten, move and entertain – on behalf of my son and I: bless and thank you. But especially to Father God, Lord Jesus and the Holy Spirit Who lives within me, I owe my all. I am yours. Do with me what You Will, and help me to honor You all the days of my life, and to become the woman you created me to be. EVERYONE should see themselves through Your loving eyes; it is the most beautiful thing. YOU I will never leave... Thank You for bringing us through!
It has been quite a ride, it really has: the most fun, most hair-raising, satisfying roller-coaster ride ever. It was all totally worth it. I'd do it all over again, if given the chance, believe me - just point me to the line. I see the fruits of my labor. My son is a pretty awesome guy, and I got to be there every step of the way, watching him blossom, burgeon and beam. What an amazing journey; most excellent, indeed. He will do great. He will become all that he is meant to be. He will enjoy all God's blessings that are in store. I look forward to watching his future unfold and discover where his path leads him. The best is yet to be!
I have to wonder, though... What it will be like now? I wonder if my house will ever really be clean again? I wonder what my coffee table top really looks like? I wonder what it will be like reading because I want to again, rather than because I have to?
I wonder what I'm supposed to do with the rest of my life? Who AM I? What is my next assignment? What will be my quest?
I'm ready now. No big retirement party; no commemorative watch; no big send off... but that's okay - I don't need any of the hoopla. Now it's just time to figure out me. Time to be. How exciting is that?! I can hardly wait to rise to the challenge!
As one of my son's beloved childhood heroes would do: out pop my wings, down goes the visor… looking to the future, and pointing to the stars, I reach out and valiantly proclaim: "To infinity, and beyond!"
Hugs -
Nini
Farmgirl Sister #1974
God gave us two hands... one to help ourselves, and one to help others!
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Edited by - Ninibini on May 16 2015 10:37:33 AM |
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ceejay48
Farmgirl Legend/Schoolmarm/Sharpshooter
13586 Posts
CeeJay (CJ)
Dolores
Colorado
USA
13586 Posts |
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Bear5
True Blue Farmgirl
13055 Posts
Louisiana/Texas
USA
13055 Posts |
Posted - May 16 2015 : 12:01:23 PM
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Congratulations to you and to your son, Nini. Job well done! Hugs
Marly
"It's only when we truly know and understand that we have a limited time on earth- and that we have no way of knowing when our time is up- that we will begin to live each day to the fullest, as if it was the only one we had." Elisabeth Kurler-Ross |
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notathreatinsight
True Blue Farmgirl
626 Posts
Erin
Monroeville
IN
USA
626 Posts |
Posted - May 17 2015 : 03:00:55 AM
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Congratulations Nini! As a homeschool mom only a couple of years in, this post is encouraging! :)
Erin
Farmgirl #3762
"It is... through the world of the imagination which takes us beyond the restrictions of provable fact, that we touch the hem of truth." - Madeleine L'Engle
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Edited by - notathreatinsight on May 17 2015 03:01:40 AM |
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LadyInRed
True Blue Farmgirl
6740 Posts
PeggyAnn
Vancouver
WA
USA
6740 Posts |
Posted - May 17 2015 : 03:32:16 AM
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Nini...Congratulation for a Job Well Done!!! You must be so proud of your Son and yet so thankful that
this is now a book closed in your lives. He will go on to bigger and better pursuits and you will go
on to having your life back. Do you even remember what that feels like? Well, if you don't...God will
direct your paths after He gives you a well deserved respite for your love, dedication and ministry to
your child. May you just sit back for awhile and rejoice in the fruits of your labor as you watch that
Man-Child of yours spread his wings and fly solo.
Love and Immense Respect for Home-Schooling Moms Like You,
Peggy
Farmgirl #1326
Dec 2011-Farmgirl of the Month
http://ladyinredsite.blogspot.com
Don't allow others to steal the Glitz from your *SPARKLE*
Life is too short to knit with ugly yarn!
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Cindy Lou
True Blue Farmgirl
2325 Posts
Susan
Lonsdale
MN
USA
2325 Posts |
Posted - May 17 2015 : 07:34:30 AM
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Nini, congratulations on your son's graduations and YOURS!
What a learning time you have shared, not just facts but also learning about each other, learning about the importance of the relationship you have, learning about how learning itself works.
So many tasks in life are pretty thankless, but to see the results in the young man your son has become is priceless!
Both of you will find your way from here, no doubt it will be a great continuing adventure.
Hugs!
Susan
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?"
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nndairy
True Blue Farmgirl
3021 Posts
Heather
Wapakoneta
Ohio
USA
3021 Posts |
Posted - May 17 2015 : 1:32:12 PM
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Congrats Nini and to your son too! I wish you both all the best and many many blessings in the next chapter of your lives.
~Heather
Farmgirl Sister #4701
September 2014 Farmgirl of the Month
http://nndairy.blogspot.com/
"The purpose of life is to enjoy every moment" - Yogi teabag
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Red Tractor Girl
True Blue Farmgirl
6534 Posts
Winnie
Gainesville
Fl
USA
6534 Posts |
Posted - May 17 2015 : 2:27:58 PM
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A big Congratulations to you and your son! I wish him well with his next steps into the future!! What do YOU plan to do with your free time now??? Any projects and inspirations that have been on hold for lack of time?
Winnie #3109
Red Tractor Girl
Farm Sister of the Year 2014 |
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Song Sparrow
True Blue Farmgirl
1010 Posts
Amy
Talleyville
Delaware
USA
1010 Posts |
Posted - May 17 2015 : 3:04:21 PM
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Congratulations to you and your son for completing an amazing journey together! And now on to individual brand new adventures. What an accomplishment!
Peace in our hearts, peace in the world
Amy (Sister#6098) www.danaherandcloud.com
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forgetmenot
True Blue Farmgirl
3602 Posts
Judith
Nora Springs
IA
USA
3602 Posts |
Posted - May 17 2015 : 3:53:22 PM
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Congratulations, Nini!!!To you and to your son! Onward and Upward!
Farmgirl sister #3926
"Courage is not the absence of fear, but the belief that something is more important than fear." Ambrose Red Moon |
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Bonnie Ellis
True Blue Farmgirl
2474 Posts
Bonnie
Minneapolis
Minnesota
USA
2474 Posts |
Posted - May 18 2015 : 1:15:21 PM
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Nini: Graduation means well done, and you both deserve it. Home schooling is a challenge, but well worth the effort. Kudos to you both.
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ceridwen
True Blue Farmgirl
899 Posts
Carole
New York
USA
899 Posts |
Posted - May 19 2015 : 08:22:00 AM
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Thanks! Now I have the Alice Cooper song singing in my head! lol
Congratulations Nini! Wow, that is quite an accomplishment. I do not think I could ever home school. It requires so much disciple and motivation. I tip my hat to you! Enjoy your free time. I'm positive you will find a gazillion things to do. Cheers!
Carole
Farmgirl Sister 3610 - Nov 7/2011
http://www.carolesquiltingetc.com
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Edited by - ceridwen on May 19 2015 08:22:52 AM |
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crafter
True Blue Farmgirl
2313 Posts
lori
Fort Atkinson
Wisconsin
USA
2313 Posts |
Posted - May 19 2015 : 09:24:03 AM
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So happy for you and your son!! Congratulations!
Lori
God has promised strength for the day, rest for the labor, light for the way, grace for the trials, help from above, unfailing sympathy and undying love.
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AFinkberry
True Blue Farmgirl
310 Posts
Ally
Kalama
Washington
310 Posts |
Posted - May 21 2015 : 9:23:48 PM
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#12362;#12417;#12391;#12392;#12358;
(omedet#333;)
CONGRATULATION!!!!!
Ally
Farmgirl Sister #5672
"There is no need for temples, no need for complicated philosophies. My brain and my heart are my temples; my philosophy is kindness." ~His Holiness the Dalai Lama |
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AFinkberry
True Blue Farmgirl
310 Posts
Ally
Kalama
Washington
310 Posts |
Posted - May 21 2015 : 9:24:27 PM
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I don't know what that is......At lest the congrats went through!
Ally
Farmgirl Sister #5672
"There is no need for temples, no need for complicated philosophies. My brain and my heart are my temples; my philosophy is kindness." ~His Holiness the Dalai Lama |
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levisgrammy
True Blue Farmgirl
9269 Posts
Denise
Beavercreek
Ohio
USA
9269 Posts |
Posted - May 23 2015 : 6:45:59 PM
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Congratulations!! I remember how it felt to know all the hard work had done so much good in the lives of our children. I can't believe it has been 9 years since our last one graduated. I'm happy to say that now my grandchildren are being homeschooled.
~Denise~
Farmgirl Sister #43
"Thy Word is a lamp unto my feet and a light unto my path." Psalm 119:105
http://www.ladybugsandlilacs.blogspot.com/
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Ninibini
True Blue Farmgirl
7577 Posts
Nini
Pennsylvania
USA
7577 Posts |
Posted - May 30 2015 : 11:56:38 AM
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Thank you, thank you, THANK YOU, sisters! This has really been a wonderful journey!!! And yes - if I can do this, you can do it, too! Just remember: coffee and Miss Clairol really do become your best friends! LOL! Just kidding... Your best friends are actually chocolate brownies and ice cream! LOL! JUST KIDDING!!!!
I apologize for taking so long to respond... Just been very busy tying up loose ends, sorting through all the books, and with life in general. SO much yet to do!!!
I do apologize to our farmgirl sister who emailed me - from Maine, I think? I did get your email, and meant to reply, but somehow accidentally deleted it. I feel so, so bad. Please write again, I'd love to correspond with you! To answer your questions - yes, we're Catholic! We based our high school history/geography and English primarily on Angelicum Academy's Great Books Program, and this past year I did a combination of the Great Books with Veritas Press' Omnibus Program with a few of my own selections tossed in. :) Please do write again, though - I would really love that!
As far as "what next?" I am still not sure. Our homeschool evaluator asked me if I'd be interested in tutoring for another local family whose mother has fallen ill, and, of course, I have said yes. I'm sure I will be hearing from the family later this summer. They're probably in the throes of wrapping up this past school year right now, just as I am. I also promised my best friend from childhood that I would start my blog and write a book as soon as my son finished school, so I'm working on those. She is strongly encouraging me to do freelance writing, as are my mother and some friends, but I need to investigate that a bit further - all in due time. I'd REALLY like to become a master food preserver and gardener through our county's extension, then offer classes at the Community College as well as in my home, but the extension isn't offering classes yet, so we'll see. Right now, I'm just tossing around ideas. I really do still have a lot of homeschool stuff to finish tackling first, and there are quite a few things here at home that need to be addressed before I delve into new projects. All in due time. All in due time. I'm hardly bored, believe me!
Mostly right now, I'm just happy to BE! :)
Thanks for celebrating with me!
Hugs -
Nini
Farmgirl Sister #1974
God gave us two hands... one to help ourselves, and one to help others!
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