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Hogs & Quiches & Prayers Round-up: my husband passed away 3/2/11  |
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Aunt B
True Blue Farmgirl
  
108 Posts
Terri
Chillicothe
OH
USA
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Ninibini
True Blue Farmgirl
    
7577 Posts
Nini
Pennsylvania
USA
7577 Posts |
Posted - Jun 04 2011 : 8:50:28 PM
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God bless your heart, Terri. I can't imagine how difficult this must be for you. You truly shared a lifetime together - what a blessing! Would you like to share with us about him? I'd love to hear about the love and life you shared. I know it isn't easy at all, but sometimes it helps to "talk" and remember. We're all here for you, ready and willing to listen - and pray! I will be praying for you, for sure. :) Big warm hugs - Nini
Farmgirl Sister #1974
God gave us two hands... one to help ourselves, and one to help others!
www.papercraftingwithnini.myctmh.com
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embchicken
True Blue Farmgirl
    
1487 Posts
Elaine
Ocean
NJ
USA
1487 Posts |
Posted - Jun 04 2011 : 8:58:00 PM
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Terri~ I am so sorry for your great loss. Please know that you will be in my thoughts and prayers.
~ Elaine Farmgirl sister #2822
"Find yourself a cup of tea; the teapot is behind you. Now tell me about hundreds of things." ~Saki
http://embchicken.blogspot.com
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emtfarmer
True Blue Farmgirl
   
222 Posts
Darlene
North Carolina
USA
222 Posts |
Posted - Jun 04 2011 : 9:07:40 PM
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Terri, I cannot say I know how you feel. I've been with my husband only 16 years. He was diagnosed with congestive heart failure at age 40 and doctors were even talking heart transplant sometime down the road. Thanks be to God, he is doing very well now. I said that just to say, God IS at work in your life; I give Him all the praise for getting us through my husband's illness.
Let yourself miss your husband; cry while standing in line at the grocery store; get angry when you look at pictures. God will be there with you as you experience every realm of emotion. You may even get angry at God, but He understands.
When my mother died, I tried to envision her being pain free (she fought cancer for five years) and Jesus welcoming her with open arms; I told myself that Heaven needed another angel. The days ahead will not be easy, but as trite as this may sound, take it one day at a time.
I feel I'm rambling so I'll just say you'll be in my prayers and I know you'll have the "farmgirl family" supporting you too. Keep in touch with us. Darlene
"Support your local fire departments and rescue squads...volunteers making a difference" |
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henlady35904
True Blue Farmgirl
   
295 Posts
Kim
Gadsden
Alabama
USA
295 Posts |
Posted - Jun 04 2011 : 9:47:01 PM
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Terri, I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my prayers. Farmgirl love! |
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Annika
True Blue Farmgirl
    
5602 Posts

Annika
USA
5602 Posts |
Posted - Jun 04 2011 : 11:06:55 PM
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Oh Terri, I'm so sorry to hear it! My sincere sympathies. I know that it hurts terribly now, I pray that you find peace and comfort. You are in my thoughts, Terri, and I'm sending a big warm farm sister hug to you tonight.
Love and light
Annika Farmgirl & sister #13
Simplicity is the ultimate sophistication. ~Leonardo DaVinci
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sherrye
True Blue Farmgirl
    
3775 Posts
sherry
bend in the high desert
oregon
USA
3775 Posts |
Posted - Jun 05 2011 : 07:08:04 AM
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i am so truly sad for you. i know it must be very hard. i send a hug and love to you. sherrye
the learn as we go silk purse farm farm girl #1014
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kristin sherrill
True Blue Farmgirl
    
11303 Posts
kristin
chickamauga
ga
USA
11303 Posts |
Posted - Jun 05 2011 : 07:21:07 AM
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I am so sorry to hear this. If you need to talk, we are here for you. I'm sure those were 38 wonderful years. My best friend died 2 weeks ago and her hubby is just lost. They were married that long too. I cannot even imagine what it's like. Sending hugs your way.
Kris
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Tn.Earthmama
True Blue Farmgirl
   
451 Posts
Phyllis
Englewood
Tennessee
451 Posts |
Posted - Jun 05 2011 : 09:20:41 AM
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Sending hugs and prayers. Phyllis |
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levisgrammy
True Blue Farmgirl
    
9595 Posts

Denise
Beavercreek
Ohio
USA
9595 Posts |
Posted - Jun 06 2011 : 06:24:39 AM
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Terri, Just wanted you to know I am sorry for the loss of your dh. I cannot imagine what you are going through but I will keep you in prayer. Know that you are loved here. There is a thread here that may help you. It is made up of some of girls here who have also dealt with the same loss you are. I am not sure what it was called but will see if I can find it. It is always good to have a group to support you during the difficult times. hugs, Denise
farmgirl sister#43
O, a trouble's a ton or a trouble's an ounce, Or a trouble is what you make it! And it isn't the fact that you're hurt that counts, But only--how did you take it?
--Edmund C. Vance.
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Fiddlehead Farm
True Blue Farmgirl
    
4562 Posts
Diane
Waupaca
WI
USA
4562 Posts |
Posted - Jun 06 2011 : 06:28:43 AM
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Terri, So sorry for your loss. You must feel like you are not whole anymore. What wonderful memories you must have after 38 years together. Those are the things you have to hang on to. Prayers and hugs out to you my dear farmgirl friend.
http://studiodiphotosite.shutterfly.com/ farmgirl sister #922
Happy to be a "Raggedy Ann" in a Barbie World!
I get up every morning determined to both change the world and have one hell of a good time. Sometimes this makes planning my day difficult. - E. B. White |
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levisgrammy
True Blue Farmgirl
    
9595 Posts

Denise
Beavercreek
Ohio
USA
9595 Posts |
Posted - Jun 06 2011 : 06:34:26 AM
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Terri, Here is the link I was talking about. http://maryjanesfarm.org/snitz/topic.asp?TOPIC_ID=41559
farmgirl sister#43
O, a trouble's a ton or a trouble's an ounce, Or a trouble is what you make it! And it isn't the fact that you're hurt that counts, But only--how did you take it?
--Edmund C. Vance.
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naturemaiden
True Blue Farmgirl
    
2569 Posts
Connie - Farmgirl #673
Hoosick Falls
NY
USA
2569 Posts |
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Nancy Gartenman
True Blue Farmgirl
    
9094 Posts
Nancy
West Seneca
New York
USA
9094 Posts |
Posted - Jun 08 2011 : 11:35:59 AM
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Terri, How sad. It must be such an overwhelming feeling that just won't stop. I'll be thinking of you. Nancy Jo
www.Nancy-Jo.blogspot.com |
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Bear5
True Blue Farmgirl
    
13055 Posts
Louisiana/Texas
USA
13055 Posts |
Posted - Jun 08 2011 : 12:00:04 PM
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Terri: I was going to mention "Stories of Us Widow Women", but I see Denise has already mentioned the topic. I am so sorry for your loss. Please, let us know how you are doing, if you need to chat, we are here. God Bless. Marly
"It's only when we truly know and understand that we have a limited time on earth- and that we have no way of knowing when our time is up- that we will begin to live each day to the fullest, as if it was the only one we had." Elisabeth Kurler-Ross |
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Bensgrandma
True Blue Farmgirl
   
227 Posts
Alexis
White Oak
PA
USA
227 Posts |
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Karrieann
True Blue Farmgirl
    
1900 Posts

Karrieann
Northeast
Georgia
USA
1900 Posts |
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Hogs & Quiches & Prayers Round-up: my husband passed away 3/2/11  |
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