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_Rebecca_
True Blue Farmgirl

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Rebecca
OK
USA
568 Posts

Posted - Aug 24 2006 :  08:02:20 AM  Show Profile
Today our 7.5 yr old son and our 5.5 yr old daughter went to school for the very first time.

We had done the homeschooling thing until my wonderful husband decided to enroll our children in our church's private Classical Christian school. (Huge chunk of change!)

Anyway, I have mixed feelings because I am very happy that they are going and I'm scared to death of my daughter having one of her classic meltdowns at school. It's normal at home for her to do this and I know how to deal with her, but to do it at school, they might come get her with the white lab coats.

From what I have heard her kindergarten teacher is totally awesome. So, we'll see if she is able to deal with our little angel/devil child.

Our son thrives in school type environments. I know that he will be fine. Thank goodness. If I had to worry about 2 at once I'd be a gonner.

.·:*¨¨* :·.Rebecca.·:*¨¨* :·.
Wife of Jonathan, Mother of Joel, Caitlyn, Elia, Nathanael

Hideaway Farmgirl
True Blue Farmgirl

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Jo
Virginia
USA
1553 Posts

Posted - Aug 24 2006 :  08:07:52 AM  Show Profile
I hope they (and You) have a good day today. Maybe your daughter will be a little more in control outside of her normal setting, especially if she is enjoying the camaraderie of new friends and a kindly (and awesome) kindergarden teacher. Homeschooling is great, but it is also important for kids to polish their socialization skills and find their place in this big ole' world. Are you ready with a special afterschool treat to celebrate their first day?

Sometimes I think it is harder on the mom's when their kids go off to school...such a BIG step. Congrats to you for letting your kids experience this.


Jo
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katiedid
True Blue Farmgirl

601 Posts

Kate
West Jordan Utah
USA
601 Posts

Posted - Aug 24 2006 :  08:30:46 AM  Show Profile
Rebecca, I think Jo is right on, kids usually save the meltdowns for home!
I am sure they will come home with all kinds of great adventures and stories to share...
Kate

http://theknifemakerswife.blogspot.com/2006/07/knifemakers-wife.html
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sunshine
True Blue Farmgirl

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Wendy
Utah
USA
4877 Posts

Posted - Aug 24 2006 :  10:42:35 AM  Show Profile  Send sunshine a Yahoo! Message
I am sure they will be fine. Ia m going through the same thing right now in that I have 2 at school all day this year and a third who is going nuts without her big sisters and drivng me nuts with her. It was a shorter trip for me than her.

have a lovely day and may God bless you and keep you safe
my web store www.sunshines.etsy.com my blog http://sunshinescreations.blogspot.com/ my google page http://sunshine.harbaugh.googlepages.com/home
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Hideaway Farmgirl
True Blue Farmgirl

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Jo
Virginia
USA
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Posted - Aug 24 2006 :  11:39:36 AM  Show Profile
Thanks for the laugh, Sunshine! Hope you have a nice return trip...

Jo
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_Rebecca_
True Blue Farmgirl

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Rebecca
OK
USA
568 Posts

Posted - Aug 24 2006 :  8:08:59 PM  Show Profile
She cried this morning and didn't want to go, but it was a pretty meek protest.

Well.....the day went well until about lunchtime and then she squabbled with another student (also our neighbor). Then she fretted about her naptime mat because it wasn't comfy. She refused to lie down. Also she was not cooperative for her teacher about sitting in a certain spot. I think that she was testing the teacher, also she has had mass chaos for the last 9 months or so, what with us moving, me pregnant/having a baby, my dad going into a nursing home (with several hospitalizations before that), then my mom's health rapid decline and hospitilization, and then we moved and then she started school. Oh, and she stopped napping during the day.

Can we say stress????

We got her a different naptime mat. Maybe tomorrow will be better. She cried this afternoon, but she was so tired. Got her home, put in her in my bathtub and let her do the jets for awhile. She finally unwound and was happy all evening. She said that she really enjoyed the art and then she reiterated her art lesson. When I tucked her in she was wanting to go back tomorrow. At least she bounced back.

Here's a pic of them today!


.·:*¨¨* :·.Rebecca.·:*¨¨* :·.
Wife of Jonathan, Mother of Joel, Caitlyn, Elia, Nathanael
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daffodil dreamer
True Blue Farmgirl

805 Posts

Jayne
Hamilton Victoria
Australia
805 Posts

Posted - Aug 24 2006 :  8:16:31 PM  Show Profile
Aren't they so sweet! Glad it all went well. Fingers crossed for tomorrow!
Best wishes,
Jayne
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Libbie
Farmgirl Connection Cultivator

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Anne E.
Elsinore Utah
USA
3579 Posts

Posted - Aug 24 2006 :  11:17:35 PM  Show Profile
Oh, they are SOOOooooo cute!!! Wishing you ALL a wonderful school day tomorrow.

XOXO, Libbie

"Nothing is worth more than this day." - Goethe
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Mumof3
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Karin
Ellenwood GA
USA
3890 Posts

Posted - Aug 25 2006 :  04:57:55 AM  Show Profile
Rebecca- Your children are beautiful!! And don't worry- every day that passes will get easier for your daughter. Children have a way of finding their niche pretty quick. I hope today is a better day for her, and you!!

Karin
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Aunt Jenny
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Jenny
middle of Utah
USA
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Posted - Aug 25 2006 :  06:26:45 AM  Show Profile
Adorable picture!! They look so happy and are so so cute!!

Jenny in Utah
Inside me there is a skinny woman crying to get out...but I can usually shut her up with cookies
http://www.auntjennysworld.blogspot.com/ visit my little online shop at www.auntjenny.etsy.com
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_Rebecca_
True Blue Farmgirl

568 Posts

Rebecca
OK
USA
568 Posts

Posted - Aug 25 2006 :  07:25:24 AM  Show Profile
Whew! Got up this morning and had to sweet-talk Caitlyn into getting ready. She was still saying she didn't want to go. I reminded her that she liked her art lesson. I also had some mints ready for the car trip to school. And finally she got out the door. I did a happy dance with my 2 year old!

When they got to school she wanted her daddy to walk to the classroom with her. She showed him around and then she hugged and kissed him goodbye. She wasn't clingy or anything.

I sure hope she has a good day today.

.·:*¨¨* :·.Rebecca.·:*¨¨* :·.
Wife of Jonathan, Mother of Joel, Caitlyn, Elia, Nathanael
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sunshine
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Wendy
Utah
USA
4877 Posts

Posted - Aug 25 2006 :  08:50:44 AM  Show Profile  Send sunshine a Yahoo! Message
I wish I was having that luck found out that my second childs best friend from K-garten moved and she is at a loss for friends. A very shy child her best friend was very out going so she would have mine be more active. My little girl is becoming a wall flower again.

have a lovely day and may God bless you and keep you safe
my web store www.sunshines.etsy.com my blog http://sunshinescreations.blogspot.com/ my google page http://sunshine.harbaugh.googlepages.com/home
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_Rebecca_
True Blue Farmgirl

568 Posts

Rebecca
OK
USA
568 Posts

Posted - Aug 25 2006 :  12:00:39 PM  Show Profile
quote:
Originally posted by sunshine

I wish I was having that luck found out that my second childs best friend from K-garten moved and she is at a loss for friends. A very shy child her best friend was very out going so she would have mine be more active. My little girl is becoming a wall flower again.

have a lovely day and may God bless you and keep you safe
my web store www.sunshines.etsy.com my blog http://sunshinescreations.blogspot.com/ my google page http://sunshine.harbaugh.googlepages.com/home




Oh... that's too bad. I'm sorry. Maybe she will find someone else to encourage her. How old is she? I had that happen to me a few times too. I was the quiet, reserved child. I think that having more outgoing friends was so helpful to me. Especially in college. I really came out of my shell there. I am still not highly extroverted, but I am comfortable for the most part. Are there any kinds of activities she could join with more kids so she could find a new best bud? Hope that it works out.

.·:*¨¨* :·.Rebecca.·:*¨¨* :·.
Wife of Jonathan, Mother of Joel, Caitlyn, Elia, Nathanael
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