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Barnyard Buddies:  Toby my dog -10-16-13 Has crossed over.  |
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StrawHouseRanch
True Blue Farmgirl
1044 Posts
Paula
Holt
Missouri
USA
1044 Posts |
 Posted - Aug 30 2013 : 07:33:13 AM
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Linda, Be strong for your Toby and shower him with love. You have made all of the right decisions. My Sophie's collar still hangs on its own peg in our hallway amongst the other pegs crammed with leashes and halters we use for the rest of the pack and I refuse to take it down or put it away.
Hugs to you and scritches to Toby.
Paula
Farmgirl Sister #3090
Yesterday is History, Tomorrow is a Mystery, and Today is a Gift.
"Look deep into Nature, and then you will understand everything better."--Albert Einstein
"A meal of bread, cheese and beer constitutes the perfect food." --Queen Elizabeth I
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Miss Bee Haven
True Blue Farmgirl
4331 Posts
Janice
Louisville/Irvington
Kentucky
USA
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Posted - Aug 30 2013 : 09:47:54 AM
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You made the right and best deicision for him, Linda. I lost my dog to cancer after letting his leg be amputated and the cancer came back in 6 months worse than before. I'd never do that again. He was such a brave guy through it all. I wish I could mail you my shoulder to cry on. I'm crying for you right now. Never doubt you've been a wonderful mom to Toby.
Farmgirl Sister #50
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HealingTouch
True Blue Farmgirl
3448 Posts
Darlene
Kunkletown
Pa
USA
3448 Posts |
Posted - Aug 30 2013 : 10:06:40 AM
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Linda,
I'm crying as I write this and can hardly see what I;m writing. First let me say that Toby and your family are in my prayers for Peace and Comfort through this difficult time. You made the correct decision. Love is what it's all about and you love him enough to let him go intact and with dignity and living his life happy to the end. Our furry friends are such a Blessing to us so I hope through all your sadness you can cherish all the days you have left and take lots of pictures! God Bless and Farm Sister love.
Be Blessed and Be a Blessing,
Darlene
Sister 1922
God first, everything else after!
When Satan's knocking at your door, just say "Jesus will you get that for me?"
When it gets to hard to stand, Kneel!
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auntsmelly
True Blue Farmgirl
559 Posts
Jenny
Pitman
NJ
USA
559 Posts |
Posted - Aug 30 2013 : 4:47:55 PM
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Just wanted to send you a hug and let you know I will be praying for you, your family and Toby.
I am a pet lover and have gone through this. We love our pets with all of our souls. They truly
are the one thing on this planet that are close to perfection. God Bless you.
Jenny
Sister #4359
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texdane
Farmgirl Legend Chapter Leader Chapter Guru
4658 Posts
Nicole
Sandy Hook
CT
USA
4658 Posts |
Posted - Aug 31 2013 : 10:19:11 AM
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Dear Sweet Linda,
My prayers have been and continue to be with you and Toby and your family. I know how hard this is, I've been through it, too. You are doing the best thing you can. Give him all the love you can and cherish each moment. Toby looks so much like my Bonnie. I know he is a sweet dog, you can tell by his sweet face. You have given him a good life, rescuing him and loving him that much. No doggie could ask for more.
Spend the time you have with your baby. Hugs and prayers to you all.
Much love,
Nicole
Farmgirl Sister #1155
KNITTER, JAM-MAKER AND MOM EXTRAORDINAIRE
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hoosiercountry
True Blue Farmgirl
572 Posts
karla
north port
fl
USA
572 Posts |
Posted - Sep 05 2013 : 10:21:55 AM
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| Dear Linda, keeping you, your family and Toby in my prayers. Your decision took courage, it comes down to quality of life not quantity. Hugs to you. Karla |
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Ninibini
True Blue Farmgirl
7577 Posts
Nini
Pennsylvania
USA
7577 Posts |
Posted - Oct 16 2013 : 08:25:40 AM
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Oh, Linda.. I'm so sorry... Toby was a such beautiful dog and looked so happy. When our son saw his picture, he got very choked up - Toby looked so much like our Pawlee. Soon she'll join him and they'll be running in the fields chasing butterflies together. You are all in our prayers. Sending big hugs to you, sister - Nini
Farmgirl Sister #1974
God gave us two hands... one to help ourselves, and one to help others!
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Penny Wise
True Blue Farmgirl
1903 Posts
Margo
Elyria
OH
USA
1903 Posts |
Posted - Oct 16 2013 : 2:03:28 PM
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I am saddened by Toby's passing...Linda...you gave him so much of life and he loved you so! your family will ache but he will run free and wait for you! my heart aches along with you.....prayers and hugs!
Farmgirl # 2139
proud member of the Farmgirls of the Southwest Henhouse
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emtfarmer
True Blue Farmgirl
222 Posts
Darlene
North Carolina
USA
222 Posts |
Posted - Oct 16 2013 : 4:29:05 PM
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Linda, my heart is aching for you. No one can say anything to lessen the pain you're feeling but please know you're in my prayers. I do hope you can find some comfort in knowing that Toby experienced lots and lots of love and sweet times with you and yours.
Many hugs to you,
Darlene
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texdane
Farmgirl Legend Chapter Leader Chapter Guru
4658 Posts
Nicole
Sandy Hook
CT
USA
4658 Posts |
Posted - Oct 16 2013 : 6:16:47 PM
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Dearest Linda,
I am so sorry to hear that sweet Toby passed today. I'm glad he got to cross over in the comfort of his own home. I know your heart is broken and I wish there was something more I could say. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Big giant hugs to you,
Nicole
Farmgirl Sister #1155
KNITTER, JAM-MAKER AND MOM EXTRAORDINAIRE
Chapter Leader, Connecticut Simpler Life Sisters
Farmgirl of the Month, January 2013
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nubidane
True Blue Farmgirl
2950 Posts
Lisa
Georgetown
OH
2950 Posts |
Posted - Oct 16 2013 : 6:36:17 PM
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I talked to Linda tonight and she described Toby perfectly. He was a gentleman. I met him several times, and after a few warning barks to let his mom know I was there, he would greet me, wag his tail and nuzzle me for some attention. He was a special boy, and will be sorely missed, but Linda, I can somehow feel him with us.
Blessings sister!
"We must reject the idea that every time a law’s broken, society is guilty rather than the lawbreaker. It is time to restore the American precept that each individual is accountable for his actions.” – R.R. |
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HealingTouch
True Blue Farmgirl
3448 Posts
Darlene
Kunkletown
Pa
USA
3448 Posts |
Posted - Oct 16 2013 : 7:07:51 PM
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Linda,
My heart is breaking for you. What an act of love to know that when the time came you could do what no one wants to do. Love and memories will get you through this. He was beautiful and you were lucky to have him as he was to have you. Prayers and love for your comfort and peace.
Be Blessed and Be a Blessing,
Darlene
Sister 1922
God first, everything else after!
When Satan's knocking at your door, just say "Jesus will you get that for me?"
When it gets to hard to stand, Kneel!
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wooliespinner
True Blue Farmgirl
1311 Posts
Linda
Manchester
Ohio
1311 Posts |
Posted - Oct 16 2013 : 7:31:04 PM
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Thanks everyone for your super kind words. I cry just reading everyone's post. I know it just takes time to grieve and just have to take it one day at a time. He has left a huge hole in my heart and life. I am thankful I have Darla here in the house to love and comfort me and I her. You all are blessing.
Linda
Raspberry Run Farm
Nubian Dairy Goats |
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Killarney
True Blue Farmgirl
5808 Posts
Connie
Arlington
TN
USA
5808 Posts |
Posted - Oct 16 2013 : 7:43:30 PM
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| Linda, I would like to share something our vet told me and my hubby some years ago, when we had to put out cat Toonces to sleep, he was 20 years old and so very sick. Over the course of 40 years,we have had to say good bye too many times to our Precious Fur babies. Our vet said, "Pets have no thought of tomorrow, They play and eat and love for today," "But we know there is hope of Tomorrow and that we will be so sad without them. So that If they are suffering and we can stop the pain, then we must. It is our gift to give to our beloved pet. It never gets any easier, no matter how old they are, and how many you have lost. The pain will be replaced someday with sweet memories of your Toby. Your in my heart and my prayers. Hugs. Connie |
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Calicogirl
True Blue Farmgirl
5216 Posts
Sharon
Bruce Crossing
Michigan
USA
5216 Posts |
Posted - Oct 17 2013 : 08:08:24 AM
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Oh Linda,
I am so so sorry for the loss of Toby. I know that this has been so difficult for you and your family. I know what it is like and I have been and am continuing prayers for all of you for the Lord to heal your hearts, to bring you comfort and peace and to give you strength. I am sorry.
Farmgirl Sister #5392
By His Grace, For His Glory
~Sharon
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laurentany
True Blue Farmgirl
3259 Posts
Laurie
Patchogue
NY
USA
3259 Posts |
Posted - Oct 17 2013 : 4:11:54 PM
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Linda, I just saw your post about Toby. I am so sorry for your loss. Please find comfort in knowing that you gave Toby a wonderful home for the past 8 year, and that not only did he touch your life in so many ways,but you touched his as well.
Hugs to you during this difficult time.
~Laurie
"Little Hen House on the Island"
Farmgirl Sister#1403
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hoosiercountry
True Blue Farmgirl
572 Posts
karla
north port
fl
USA
572 Posts |
Posted - Oct 17 2013 : 5:08:23 PM
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| Dear Linda, I am so very sorry to hear of your loss of Toby. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Hugs Karla |
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marlee
True Blue Farmgirl
1650 Posts
Marlene
DeRidder
Louisiana
1650 Posts |
Posted - Oct 17 2013 : 7:38:40 PM
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OH I am so sorry for your loss of Toby. He knew he was loved, and that is the greatest gift there is. Sending you Hugs and prayers
Marlee
God is the painter, he paints the picture. And his son builds it, for he is the Master Carpenter!
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TeresaJ25
True Blue Farmgirl
975 Posts
Teresa
Medford
NY
USA
975 Posts |
Posted - Oct 18 2013 : 09:44:37 AM
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Linda I am so sorry for your loss. I hope during this time you can be comforted with all the wonderful memories you have of Toby.
Animals come into our lives and quickly become a part of our lives, and a part of our family.
I am praying that you find peace during this difficult time, and know that we are all here for you.
((hugs))
~Teresa
Farmgirl Sister #1348
Little Henhouse on the Island
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wooliespinner
True Blue Farmgirl
1311 Posts
Linda
Manchester
Ohio
1311 Posts |
Posted - Oct 18 2013 : 3:14:43 PM
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This is not the best picture of Toby and Darla but this was how they were. Together all the time. Darla really misses her buddy. She just loved him so much.
Linda
Raspberry Run Farm
Nubian Dairy Goats |
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prariehawk
True Blue Farmgirl
2914 Posts
Cindy
2914 Posts |
Posted - Oct 18 2013 : 8:50:03 PM
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Dog is God spelled backwards. Their love is true. I know it was hard to let Toby go, I still miss my Boxer. You never forget them.
Cindy
"Vast floods can't quench love, no matter what love did/ Rivers can't drown love, no matter where love's hid"--Sinead O'Connor
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magnoliakathy
True Blue Farmgirl
453 Posts
Kathryn
Magnolia
Texas
USA
453 Posts |
Posted - Oct 19 2013 : 4:59:24 PM
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You have my heartfelt tears and sympathies, and I thank you for all you did for your wonderful friend, Toby.
When you free your mind your heart can fly. Farmgirl # 714, |
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auntsmelly
True Blue Farmgirl
559 Posts
Jenny
Pitman
NJ
USA
559 Posts |
Posted - Oct 19 2013 : 7:19:54 PM
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I am so sorry for your loss. This poem always reminds me that my pets are waiting for me on the Rainbow Bridge.
I'm counting my blessings today instead of my calories.
Piglet noticed that even though he had a very small heart, it could hold a very large amount of gratitude. A.A.Milne
Jenny, Blessed Sister #4359
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forgetmenot
True Blue Farmgirl
3602 Posts
Judith
Nora Springs
IA
USA
3602 Posts |
Posted - Oct 22 2013 : 8:09:32 PM
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Linda, so sorry to hear of your dear Toby's passing. Hugs. The Rainbow Bridge piece is lovely..I'll bet that is just the way it happens.
Farmgirl sister #3926
"Courage is not the absence of fear, but the belief that something is more important than fear." Ambrose Red Moon |
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wooliespinner
True Blue Farmgirl
1311 Posts
Linda
Manchester
Ohio
1311 Posts |
Posted - Oct 22 2013 : 8:39:12 PM
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I have read that in the past and I have always hoped it would be that way. I sure do miss my Toby.
It will be a week tomorrow since he left us and I have to say its been really hard.Darla is having such a hard time without Toby. I worry about her she keeps looking for him.I hope she will adjust.She is an inside dog so at least she has us to hang out with.
We have lost so many rescues over the years and it never gets any easier. It seems harder with each one. But we have been blessed to have so many wonderful pets who have left their mark on our hearts forever. Lots of good memories for sure and glad we have them. We still have 3 dogs and 7 cats.I am so glad.
Thanks ladies for your wonderful kind words.Hugs to you each and everyone of you your all such sweet peas.
Linda
Raspberry Run Farm
Nubian Dairy Goats |
Edited by - wooliespinner on Oct 22 2013 8:40:36 PM |
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Barnyard Buddies: Toby my dog -10-16-13 Has crossed over. |
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Toby my dog -10-16-13 Has crossed over.
